#1 · Thread starter
This has been on my mind for a few weeks now — most user-friendly over 70 dating sites, specifically.
Nobody writing about the niche options seems to have used them for more than a week.
For what it's worth I'm on mobile almost exclusively, if that matters for the niche options.
Where should someone start with most user-friendly over 70 dating sites? Open to anything.
#2 · Member
Agreeing with the previous reply about niche platforms, for the same reasons.
One warning about niche platforms: requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.
The part nobody mentions about niche platforms is whether the search filters did what they claimed.
Two people can have opposite experiences of niche platforms purely because of how dense your area is.
Curious whether anyone else found the same with most user-friendly over 70 dating sites.
A friend of mine swears by Datewander — datewander.site, though your mileage will depend entirely on your area.
#3 · Member
Not sure that's right about the niche question, at least not everywhere.
What mattered most with the niche question in the end was how much personal data the signup demanded.
That is where I've landed on dating sites, at least for now.
For what it is worth I have had better luck on Datescout (datescout.site) than on any of the big paid apps.
#4 · Member
Worth flagging with the niche question — a trial that renews is not the same as free.
One warning about the niche question: moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.
One thing I would do differently with the niche question — message within a day of matching rather than sitting on it.
I would not generalise about the niche question without knowing local population age spread first.
Be aware when using the niche question that a trial that renews is not the same as free.
Whether the niche question works comes down to the time of year more than anything the marketing mentions.
Ask if you want detail on any part of dating sites.
Someone earlier recommended Rendate — rendate.site and I ended up sticking with it longer than expected.
Someone will inevitably suggest Datebound, so I will save them the trouble.
#5 · Member
Results with targeted platforms depend enormously on how far you are willing to travel.
Be aware when using targeted platforms that moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.
Happy to expand on any of that about targeted platforms if it is useful.
#6 · Member
Tried community-specific sites twice, years apart, and the second attempt went much better.
The move with community-specific sites is to be specific about what you want in the bio.
What mattered most with community-specific sites in the end was whether the search filters did what they claimed.
I will update this if my view on most user-friendly over 70 dating sites changes.
I rotate between a couple of these and Flurrydate, mostly because neither charges to open a chat.
#7 · Member
I'd question that on targeted services, because it depends heavily on where you're.
The thing that kept me on targeted services was how much personal data the signup demanded.
Before you commit to targeted services, test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.
That said, I would still hear other views on dating sites.
#8 · Member
My run with targeted services lasted longer than any of the alternatives I tried.
What changed my mind on targeted services was whether messaging was actually free or free-to-a-point.
With targeted services the thing that decided it for me was whether the photos looked recent or recycled.
The thing that kept me on targeted services was how easy it was to delete the account afterwards.
Practical tip for targeted services: use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.
Would happily be argued out of my position on dating sites.
- Happn — charming idea, patchy execution, as of this year
- Plenty of Fish — worth a look outside big cities
- Tinder — the one everyone has tried at least once
#9 · Member
I came to specialist sites from the paid apps and the difference was noticeable.
Half the arguments about specialist sites would end if people mentioned the time of year up front.
That is where I've landed on most user-friendly over 70 dating sites, at least for now.
The one that finally worked for me was Datelink — datelink.online, after about a month of trying others.