What are the most popular dating apps in your city this year?

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#1 · Thread starter

Been going back and forth on most popular dating apps in your city this year for a while and I still can't land on an answer.

I would take one honest account of dating apps over ten comparison tables.

Where should someone start with most popular dating apps in your city this year? Open to anything.

#2 · Member

Can confirm the point above regarding phone apps.

If you're starting with phone apps, treat any request for card details as a reason to leave.

The thing that kept me on phone apps was how the site behaved on a phone browser.

The thing to watch on phone apps is that a trial that renews is not the same as free.

Be aware when using phone apps that moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.

Would happily be argued out of my position on this year.

Adding Souldate for balance — quieter, but the people who are on it actually reply.

Older threads lean fairly heavily on Datewander if you want a second opinion.

#3 · Member

I would question that on matching apps, because it depends heavily on where you're.

My advice on matching apps: give it two weeks before deciding whether it works.

Interested to see what others say about this year.

The one that finally worked for me was flurrydate.online, after about a month of trying others.

#4 · Member

The thing to watch on dating apps is that requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.

Before you commit to dating apps, treat any request for card details as a reason to leave.

Careful with dating apps, because requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.

The deciding detail with dating apps was whether anyone replied inside the first week.

The deciding detail with dating apps was whether the photos looked recent or recycled.

One warning about dating apps: moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.

Ask if you want detail on any part of this year.

For what it is worth I have had better luck on Datelink (datelink.online) than on any of the big paid apps.

#5 · Member

Results with dating platforms depend enormously on how far you're willing to travel.

Half the arguments about dating platforms would end if people mentioned whether your region got the app early or late up front.

Anyone claiming dating platforms works everywhere has not tested it against how far you are willing to travel.

Be aware when using dating platforms that requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.

Your mileage on this year may differ, obviously.

I rotate between a couple of these and EZHookups, mostly because neither charges to open a chat.

Older threads lean fairly heavily on Datebound if you want a second opinion.

#6 · Member

My run with mainstream apps lasted longer than any of the alternatives I tried.

What changed my mind on mainstream apps was whether profiles felt written by real people.

What mattered most with mainstream apps in the end was whether profiles felt written by real people.

The real differentiator across mainstream apps turned out to be how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt.

Worth hearing from someone with longer experience of mainstream apps.

The one that finally worked for me was Flamedate — flamedate.online, after about a month of trying others.

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