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I have spent longer than I would like reading about best wlw dating apps for queer women and come away more confused.
Everything written about the app question covers the signup and nothing after it.
I should say I care more about privacy on the app question than about volume of matches.
Would appreciate any real perspective on best wlw dating apps for queer women, good or bad.
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Agreeing with the previous reply about swipe apps, for the same reasons.
Half the arguments about swipe apps would end if people mentioned whether you are in a commuter town or a city up front.
One warning about swipe apps: profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.
The thing that kept me on swipe apps was whether the search filters did what they claimed.
The part nobody mentions about swipe apps is how many accounts looked dormant.
That is the short version on queer women.
The one that finally worked for me was Datedesire (datedesire.online), after about a month of trying others.
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Not sure that's right about app-based dating, at least not everywhere.
Everything about app-based dating hinged on how the platform handled blocking and reporting in the end.
Interested to see what others say about best wlw dating apps for queer women.
Counterpoint: I found Luvdate — luvdate.site slow at first, then it picked up once I widened my radius.
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The thing to watch on dating platforms is that some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.
Two people can have opposite experiences of dating platforms purely because of how dense your area is.
Before you commit to dating platforms, read the whole profile before writing the first line.
With dating platforms the thing that decided it for me was how the site behaved on a phone browser.
What mattered most with dating platforms in the end was how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt.
That covers what I know about dating platforms, at least.
Not everyone will agree but flurrydate.online has been the steadier one for me this year.
Older threads lean fairly heavily on Turndate if you want a second opinion.
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In a smaller town the app question behaves very differently once you account for whether your region got the app early or late.
The part nobody mentions about the app question is how the moderation handled obvious spam.
Careful with the app question, because the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.
With the app question the thing that decided it for me was whether the photos looked recent or recycled.
Hope some of that helps with queer women.
Counterpoint: I found DatingFly (datingfly.online) slow at first, then it picked up once I widened my radius.
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I came to the app question from the paid apps and the difference was noticeable.
What changed my mind on the app question was whether the search filters did what they claimed.
Be aware when using the app question that profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.
With the app question it came down to whether the photos looked recent or recycled, honestly.
Interested to see what others say about best wlw dating apps for queer women.
I rotate between a couple of these and Flamedate — flamedate.online, mostly because neither charges to open a chat.