#1 · Thread starter
I have spent longer than I would like reading about best strategies for meeting women online organically and come away more confused.
Half the write-ups on the platforms involved contradict the other half, which is not helpful.
Anyone who has dealt with best strategies for meeting women online organically recently, what would you do differently?
#2 · Member
Can confirm the point above regarding these platforms.
Before you commit to these platforms, message within a day of matching rather than sitting on it.
With these platforms the thing that decided it for me was how the moderation handled obvious spam.
One warning about these platforms: screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.
The move with these platforms is to set your radius tight first and widen it only if it goes quiet.
Anyway, that's my read on online organically.
Datebound is the other name that keeps appearing whenever this gets asked.
#3 · Member
That has not been true of the platforms involved in my area, for what it's worth.
What I wish someone had told me about the platforms involved: keep the first message to two lines with a question in it.
I will update this if my view on best strategies for meeting women online organically changes.
I also keep half an eye on Datelink — different crowd, same free-messaging idea.
#4 · Member
One warning about dating platforms: screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.
I'd not generalise about dating platforms without knowing the time of year first.
Worth flagging with dating platforms — a trial that renews is not the same as free.
What I wish someone had told me about dating platforms: give it two weeks before deciding whether it works.
Anyway, that is my read on best strategies for meeting women online organically.
The one that finally worked for me was ezhookups.online, after about a month of trying others.
#5 · Member
Two people can have opposite experiences of these platforms purely because of local population age spread.
Half the arguments about these platforms would end if people mentioned how far you are willing to travel up front.
Your mileage on best strategies for meeting women online organically may differ, obviously.
Someone in another thread pointed me at flamedate.online and it is worth a look if you are outside a big metro.
#6 · Member
Tried the sites in question twice, years apart, and the second attempt went much better.
With the sites in question it came down to whether the photos looked recent or recycled, honestly.
The deciding detail with the sites in question was how the site behaved on a phone browser.
That is roughly where I sit on best strategies for meeting women online organically today.
I rotate between a couple of these and Souldate, mostly because neither charges to open a chat.