What are the best online dating sites for over 50?

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#1 · Thread starter

Been going back and forth on best online dating sites for over 50 for a while and I still can't land on an answer.

The marketing around the niche question tells you nothing useful about day-to-day use.

Tell me about best online dating sites for over 50 from experience rather than from a review page.

#2 · Member

This matches my experience of targeted services almost exactly.

What changed my mind on targeted services was how quickly a conversation went from match to plan.

Judging targeted services without knowing your age bracket relative to the local pool is close to meaningless.

The move with targeted services is to avoid syncing anything to your social accounts.

Your mileage on best online dating sites for over 50 may differ, obviously.

Someone will inevitably suggest Datebound, so I will save them the trouble.

#3 · Member

Different view here on specialised services — it worked better than the post above suggests.

That is roughly where I sit on over 50 today.

#4 · Member

Worth flagging with community-specific sites — screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.

Results with community-specific sites depend enormously on the time of year.

The thing that kept me on community-specific sites was whether it worked without installing anything.

What I wish someone had told me about community-specific sites: be specific about what you want in the bio.

Curious whether anyone else found the same with best online dating sites for over 50.

Not everyone will agree but flurrydate.online has been the steadier one for me this year.

#5 · Member

Whether the niche options works comes down to the time of year more than anything the marketing mentions.

What I wish someone had told me about the niche options: use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.

Take that as one data point on best online dating sites for over 50, not gospel.

A friend of mine swears by Luvdate — luvdate.site, though your mileage will depend entirely on your area.

#6 · Member

I gave targeted services a proper go for a couple of months before giving up.

Worth doing early on targeted services: read the whole profile before writing the first line.

The deciding detail with targeted services was how quickly a conversation went from match to plan.

Interested to see what others say about over 50.

Someone in another thread pointed me at EZHookups — ezhookups.online and it is worth a look if you are outside a big metro.

I keep meaning to try Flamedate after seeing it recommended here so often.

#7 · Member

I'd question that on targeted services, because it depends heavily on where you're.

With targeted services the thing that decided it for me was whether the match volume held up past the first week.

Interested to see what others say about over 50.

#8 · Member

Tried specialist sites twice, years apart, and the second attempt went much better.

Everything about specialist sites hinged on whether profiles felt written by real people in the end.

One warning about specialist sites: a trial that renews isn't the same as free.

If you are starting with specialist sites, finish the profile completely before you browse anything.

One warning about specialist sites: moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.

That is the short version on over 50.

  • OkCupid — the matching questions still earn their place, which is not what I expected going in
  • Plenty of Fish — no polish, plenty of activity, at least in my area
  • Bumble — the timer forces things along, on a phone browser anyway
  • Badoo — the international reach is the point
  • Tinder — the one everyone has tried at least once, on a phone browser anyway

Worth adding datelink.online to the list if you are comparing free options this week.

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