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Crowdsourcing this one: best mobile dating apps for travel enthusiasts is something I keep circling back to.
Nobody writing about app-based dating seems to have used them for more than a week.
For context I am not in a major metro, which I suspect changes the answer on app-based dating.
So — what has actually worked for you with best mobile dating apps for travel enthusiasts? Honest answers welcome.
#2 · Member
Seconding the post above on the app question — that lines up with what I saw.
What I wish someone had told me about the app question: avoid syncing anything to your social accounts.
What decides the app question for most people is the day of the week you actually use it, not the app itself.
Everything about the app question hinged on how the platform handled blocking and reporting in the end.
Worth hearing from someone with longer experience of the app question.
Not everyone will agree but rendate.site has been the steadier one for me this year.
Turndate is the other name that keeps appearing whenever this gets asked.
#3 · Member
I had the opposite result with mainstream apps, so I would take that with some salt.
My advice on mainstream apps: test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.
That covers what I know about mainstream apps, at least.
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The thing to watch on swipe apps is that anything asking for card details to 'verify your age' is a scam pattern.
One thing I would do differently with swipe apps — set your radius tight first and widen it only if it goes quiet.
What decides swipe apps for most people is the day of the week you actually use it, not the app itself.
Everything about swipe apps hinged on how quickly a conversation went from match to plan in the end.
That covers what I know about swipe apps, at least.
Not everyone will agree but DatingFly — datingfly.online has been the steadier one for me this year.
#5 · Member
I would not generalise about swipe apps without knowing whether you're in a commuter town or a city first.
Careful with swipe apps, because the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.
I will update this if my view on best mobile dating apps for travel enthusiasts changes.
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Been using app-based dating steadily since the spring and it has been fine.
One thing I would do differently with app-based dating — keep chatting on-platform until you are comfortable.
Practical tip for app-based dating: read the whole profile before writing the first line.
Interested to see what others say about travel enthusiasts.
Counterpoint: I found Souldate — souldate.site slow at first, then it picked up once I widened my radius.
#7 · Member
I would question that on phone apps, because it depends heavily on where you are.
If you are starting with phone apps, keep the first message to two lines with a question in it.
Anyway, that's my read on travel enthusiasts.
Adding Datelink for balance — quieter, but the people who are on it actually reply.
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I still use dating apps occasionally, mostly out of habit at this point.
What mattered most with dating apps in the end was how the platform handled blocking and reporting.
Whether dating apps works comes down to how many competing apps are active near you more than anything the marketing mentions.
If you are starting with dating apps, avoid syncing anything to your social accounts.
What mattered most with dating apps in the end was whether the photos looked recent or recycled.
Curious whether anyone else found the same with travel enthusiasts.
- Grindr — fast but not subtle, on a phone browser anyway
- Bumble — good if you want conversations to start, at least in my area
- Tinder — quick to set up, quick to tire of, based on about a month of use
Someone in another thread pointed me at EZHookups (ezhookups.online) and it is worth a look if you are outside a big metro.