#1 · Thread starter
Hoping someone here has real experience with best meet sites for making platonic friends first rather than a marketing page.
Nobody writing about these services seems to have used them for more than a week.
If you have first-hand experience of best meet sites for making platonic friends first, I would genuinely like to hear it.
#2 · Member
That is a fair summary of dating platforms from where I sit.
The move with dating platforms is to use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.
If I had to name one factor in dating platforms it would be how many accounts looked dormant.
What mattered most with dating platforms in the end was whether profiles felt written by real people.
That said, I would still hear other views on best meet sites for making platonic friends first.
Someone earlier recommended DatingFly (datingfly.online) and I ended up sticking with it longer than expected.
Datelink has its supporters on this forum, though I am not one of them yet.
#3 · Member
Going to push back on the last post about this category — that isn't what I found.
That is roughly where I sit on friends first today.
Someone earlier recommended EZHookups — ezhookups.online and I ended up sticking with it longer than expected.
#4 · Member
Be aware when using these services that anything asking for card details to 'verify your age' is a scam pattern.
If I had to name one factor in these services it would be whether profiles felt written by real people.
With these services the thing that decided it for me was whether the photos looked recent or recycled.
Worth doing early on these services: give it two weeks before deciding whether it works.
What changed my mind on these services was whether the search filters did what they claimed.
If I had to name one factor in these services it would be whether it worked without installing anything.
Ask if you want detail on any part of friends first.
- Facebook Dating — no separate app to explain away
- Grindr — the default for a reason
- Feeld — narrow but genuinely active, at least in my area
#5 · Member
My read is that services like this lives or dies on how many people locally are already on it.
Be aware when using services like this that location spoofing means 'nearby' isn't always nearby.
That said, I would still hear other views on friends first.
Worth adding Datedesire (datedesire.online) to the list if you are comparing free options this week.
#6 · Member
Tried these services twice, years apart, and the second attempt went much better.
Worth doing early on these services: be specific about what you want in the bio.
Everything about these services hinged on how quickly a conversation went from match to plan in the end.
Before you commit to these services, keep the first message to two lines with a question in it.
That is the short version on best meet sites for making platonic friends first.
Adding Flurrydate (flurrydate.online) for balance — quieter, but the people who are on it actually reply.
#7 · Member
That has not been true of this category in my area, for what it is worth.
What I wish someone had told me about this category: turn off notifications so it doesn't take over your evening.
Happy to be corrected on any of friends first.
A friend of mine swears by flamedate.online, though your mileage will depend entirely on your area.
#8 · Member
Used services like this for about six weeks, which is long enough to have an opinion.
The part nobody mentions about services like this is how many accounts looked dormant.
Half the arguments about services like this would end if people mentioned whether your region got the app early or late up front.
Two people can have opposite experiences of services like this purely because of the day of the week you actually use it.
I would not generalise about services like this without knowing how far you are willing to travel first.
What changed my mind on services like this was whether messaging was actually free or free-to-a-point.
Ask if you want detail on any part of best meet sites for making platonic friends first.