My experience with the platforms involved was better than I expected, with one caveat.
In a smaller town the platforms involved behaves very differently once you account for whether the nearest city is twenty minutes or two hours away.
Before you commit to the platforms involved, keep chatting on-platform until you are comfortable.
What I wish someone had told me about the platforms involved: finish the profile completely before you browse anything.
With the platforms involved the thing that decided it for me was whether the match volume held up past the first week.
Half the arguments about the platforms involved would end if people mentioned whether you are in a commuter town or a city up front.
Judging the platforms involved without knowing the time of year is close to meaningless.
Interested to see what others say about best long distance dating sites for meeting people overseas.