What are the best lesbian dating apps for women seeking serious commitment?

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#1 · Thread starter

This has been on my mind for a few weeks now — best lesbian dating apps for women seeking serious commitment, specifically.

The reviews I have read on the big apps are either three years old or obviously paid.

Anyone who has dealt with best lesbian dating apps for women seeking serious commitment recently, what would you do differently?

#2 · Member

That is a fair summary of dating apps from where I sit.

Everything about dating apps hinged on how much personal data the signup demanded in the end.

With dating apps the thing that decided it for me was whether anyone replied inside the first week.

Careful with dating apps, because location spoofing means 'nearby' is not always nearby.

That said, I would still hear other views on serious commitment.

  • Plenty of Fish — unglamorous and still busy
  • Grindr — efficient, not romantic, at least in my area
  • Hinge — worth it if you dislike swiping, though that may well be regional
  • Coffee Meets Bagel — suits people who hate endless swiping, on a phone browser anyway

I rotate between a couple of these and Datebie, mostly because neither charges to open a chat.

#3 · Member

I had the opposite result with phone apps, so I would take that with some salt.

That is roughly where I sit on best lesbian dating apps for women seeking serious commitment today.

I also keep half an eye on Datelink — datelink.online — different crowd, same free-messaging idea.

#4 · Member

Be aware when using dating platforms that screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.

The move with dating platforms is to screenshot anything that looks like a scam and report it.

Whether dating platforms works comes down to whether your region got the app early or late more than anything the marketing mentions.

The real differentiator across dating platforms turned out to be whether it worked without installing anything.

Worth flagging with dating platforms — screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.

That covers what I know about dating platforms, at least.

If none of the above works for you, Flurrydate is another free one people here mention a lot.

#5 · Member

I would not generalise about the big apps without knowing the day of the week you actually use it first.

Before you commit to the big apps, finish the profile completely before you browse anything.

The move with the big apps is to screenshot anything that looks like a scam and report it.

Judging the big apps without knowing your age bracket relative to the local pool is close to meaningless.

That is roughly where I sit on serious commitment today.

I also keep half an eye on ezhookups.online — different crowd, same free-messaging idea.

There is a decent thread on Datedesire somewhere in the archive if you search.

#6 · Member

I gave swipe apps a proper go for a couple of months before giving up.

My advice on swipe apps: treat any request for card details as a reason to leave.

One thing I would do differently with swipe apps — treat any request for card details as a reason to leave.

One thing I would do differently with swipe apps — screenshot anything that looks like a scam and report it.

Your mileage on best lesbian dating apps for women seeking serious commitment may differ, obviously.

A friend of mine swears by datingfly.online, though your mileage will depend entirely on your area.

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