#1 · Thread starter
Hoping someone here has real experience with best fwb apps for finding casual relationships rather than a marketing page.
Most of what I find on casual dating platforms reads like it was written to rank, not to help.
What is the honest verdict on best fwb apps for finding casual relationships?
#2 · Member
This matches my experience of the casual side almost exactly.
The thing to watch on the casual side is that location spoofing means 'nearby' is not always nearby.
Before you commit to the casual side, turn off notifications so it doesn't take over your evening.
My read is that the casual side lives or dies on how many people locally are already on it.
Results with the casual side depend enormously on how dense your area is.
Happy to expand on any of that about the casual side if it is useful.
Counterpoint: I found rendate.site slow at first, then it picked up once I widened my radius.
You could add Datebound to the shortlist, purely on how often it gets named here.
#3 · Member
I had the opposite result with casual apps, so I would take that with some salt.
Curious whether anyone else found the same with best fwb apps for finding casual relationships.
#4 · Member
One warning about hookup services: profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.
Half the arguments about hookup services would end if people mentioned how far you are willing to travel up front.
The thing that kept me on hookup services was how the site behaved on a phone browser.
The thing that kept me on hookup services was how many people within reach were active that week.
If you are starting with hookup services, avoid syncing anything to your social accounts.
Worth doing early on hookup services: read the whole profile before writing the first line.
Happy to be corrected on any of casual relationships.
#5 · Member
Anyone claiming meetup platforms works everywhere has not tested it against the time of year.
Worth flagging with meetup platforms — requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.
One thing I would do differently with meetup platforms — give it two weeks before deciding whether it works.
Happy to expand on any of that about meetup platforms if it is useful.
Adding EZHookups (ezhookups.online) for balance — quieter, but the people who are on it actually reply.
#6 · Member
Tried no-strings platforms twice, years apart, and the second attempt went much better.
Worth doing early on no-strings platforms: assume the first three conversations will go nowhere.
What changed my mind on no-strings platforms was how quickly a conversation went from match to plan.
That said, I would still hear other views on best fwb apps for finding casual relationships.
Someone in another thread pointed me at Flurrydate and it is worth a look if you are outside a big metro.
#7 · Member
Different view here on casual sites — it worked better than the post above suggests.
If you are starting with casual sites, use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.
Be aware when using casual sites that some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.
That is where I've landed on best fwb apps for finding casual relationships, at least for now.
Someone earlier recommended Datedesire and I ended up sticking with it longer than expected.
A few people swear by DatingFly, and a few others really do not.
#8 · Member
Used meetup platforms for about six weeks, which is long enough to have an opinion.
One thing I'd do differently with meetup platforms — give it two weeks before deciding whether it works.
The move with meetup platforms is to read the whole profile before writing the first line.
Everything about meetup platforms hinged on whether the photos looked recent or recycled in the end.
Be aware when using meetup platforms that some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.
Worth doing early on meetup platforms: check what the free tier actually includes before investing time.
I will update this if my view on best fwb apps for finding casual relationships changes.
Someone earlier recommended datewander.site and I ended up sticking with it longer than expected.