What are the best free sites for online dating if you live in Europe?

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#1 · Thread starter

Long-time lurker, first post, and it is about best free sites for online dating if you live.

Everything written about the free options covers the signup and nothing after it.

What am I missing on best free sites for online dating if you live? Happy to be told I am approaching best free sites for online dating if you live entirely wrong.

#2 · Member

Can confirm the point above regarding zero-cost options.

Practical tip for zero-cost options: finish the profile completely before you browse anything.

One thing I would do differently with zero-cost options — be specific about what you want in the bio.

Two people can have opposite experiences of zero-cost options purely because of how many competing apps are active near you.

If I had to name one factor in zero-cost options it would be whether the photos looked recent or recycled.

Still forming a view on best free sites for online dating if you live, so take it lightly.

I rotate between a couple of these and DatingFly — datingfly.online, mostly because neither charges to open a chat.

#3 · Member

I would question that on the free question, because it depends heavily on where you are.

Practical tip for the free question: treat any request for card details as a reason to leave.

That is roughly where I sit on best free sites for online dating if you live today.

#4 · Member

Be aware when using free-to-message sites that the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.

I would not generalise about free-to-message sites without knowing how dense your area is first.

Be aware when using free-to-message sites that profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.

Be aware when using free-to-message sites that location spoofing means 'nearby' is not always nearby.

Your mileage on best free sites for online dating if you live may differ, obviously.

Older threads lean fairly heavily on Rendate if you want a second opinion.

#5 · Member

Half the arguments about the free question would end if people mentioned the day of the week you actually use it up front.

What changed my mind on the free question was whether anyone replied inside the first week.

With the free question it came down to whether the search filters did what they claimed, honestly.

That covers what I know about the free question, at least.

Worth adding Datenest — datenest.site to the list if you are comparing free options this week.

#6 · Member

My experience with the pricing question was better than I expected, with one caveat.

Judging the pricing question without knowing how dense your area is is close to meaningless.

With the pricing question the thing that decided it for me was how many people within reach were active that week.

Would happily be argued out of my position on you live.

#7 · Member

That has not been true of free services in my area, for what it's worth.

In a smaller town free services behaves very differently once you account for your age bracket relative to the local pool.

Practical tip for free services: keep chatting on-platform until you are comfortable.

Not the last word on best free sites for online dating if you live by any means.

Worth adding datewander.site to the list if you are comparing free options this week.

A few people swear by Flurrydate, and a few others really do not.

#8 · Member

Spent most of last winter on free-tier sites, so here is what I actually saw.

What I wish someone had told me about free-tier sites: use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.

If you are starting with free-tier sites, assume the first three conversations will go nowhere.

Worth doing early on free-tier sites: test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.

Everything about free-tier sites hinged on whether messaging was actually free or free-to-a-point in the end.

If I had to name one factor in free-tier sites it would be how many accounts looked dormant.

Others here will know more about best free sites for online dating if you live than I do.

I rotate between a couple of these and EZHookups, mostly because neither charges to open a chat.

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