#1 · Thread starter
Bringing best free local dating apps that focus strictly on to the forum because I trust this place more than a top-ten article.
There is a gap between how phone apps are advertised and how they seem to work.
I should say I care more about privacy on phone apps than about volume of matches.
Anyone who has dealt with best free local dating apps that focus strictly on recently, what would you do differently?
#2 · Member
This matches my experience of swipe apps almost exactly.
One thing I would do differently with swipe apps — test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.
The thing to watch on swipe apps is that screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.
Your mileage on best free local dating apps that focus strictly on may differ, obviously.
The one that finally worked for me was datingfly.online, after about a month of trying others.
#3 · Member
I had the opposite result with phone apps, so I'd take that with some salt.
Still forming a view on strictly on, so take it lightly.
If none of the above works for you, Flurrydate is another free one people here mention a lot.
#4 · Member
Be aware when using phone apps that anything asking for card details to 'verify your age' is a scam pattern.
With phone apps the thing that decided it for me was how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt.
One thing I'd do differently with phone apps — keep chatting on-platform until you are comfortable.
The thing to watch on phone apps is that moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.
What I wish someone had told me about phone apps: keep chatting on-platform until you're comfortable.
One thing I would do differently with phone apps — keep chatting on-platform until you are comfortable.
That is roughly where I sit on strictly on today.
You could add Datebound to the shortlist, purely on how often it gets named here.
#5 · Member
Geography does most of the work with the app options — whether your region got the app early or late matters more than the feature list.
The move with the app options is to use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.
Would happily be argued out of my position on best free local dating apps that focus strictly on.
#6 · Member
I gave the big apps a proper go for a couple of months before giving up.
The deciding detail with the big apps was how many accounts looked dormant.
What mattered most with the big apps in the end was whether the free tier let you see who liked you.
Take that as one data point on best free local dating apps that focus strictly on, not gospel.
#7 · Member
I had the opposite result with the app question, so I'd take that with some salt.
In a smaller town the app question behaves very differently once you account for how wide you set the radius.
Worth doing early on the app question: keep chatting on-platform until you are comfortable.
Take that as one data point on best free local dating apps that focus strictly on, not gospel.
For what it is worth I have had better luck on Datebie than on any of the big paid apps.
There is a decent thread on Datescout somewhere in the archive if you search.
#8 · Member
I gave swipe apps a proper go for a couple of months before giving up.
Practical tip for swipe apps: use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.
What decides swipe apps for most people is whether you are in a commuter town or a city, not the app itself.
The part nobody mentions about swipe apps is whether profiles felt written by real people.
Practical tip for swipe apps: turn off notifications so it does not take over your evening.
One thing I would do differently with swipe apps — avoid syncing anything to your social accounts.
If you're starting with swipe apps, use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.
Interested to see what others say about strictly on.