What are the best foreign dating sites for finding an international spouse?

Started by SeanMurph 15 Mar 2026 5 replies Category Adult Dating adult chat online hookups cam sites
#1 · Thread starter

I have spent longer than I would like reading about best foreign dating sites for finding an international spouse and come away more confused.

Half the write-ups on this category contradict the other half, which is not helpful.

Where should someone start with best foreign dating sites for finding an international spouse? Open to anything.

#2 · Member

Seconding the post above on dating platforms — that lines up with what I saw.

One thing I would do differently with dating platforms — give it two weeks before deciding whether it works.

The thing to watch on dating platforms is that profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.

What I wish someone had told me about dating platforms: finish the profile completely before you browse anything.

Would happily be argued out of my position on best foreign dating sites for finding an international spouse.

#3 · Member

Going to push back on the last post about these platforms — that's not what I found.

I would not generalise about these platforms without knowing how many competing apps are active near you first.

That covers what I know about these platforms, at least.

Someone in another thread pointed me at Datedesire and it is worth a look if you are outside a big metro.

#4 · Member

The thing to watch on the platforms involved is that some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.

The thing that kept me on the platforms involved was how easy it was to delete the account afterwards.

Practical tip for the platforms involved: turn off notifications so it does not take over your evening.

What changed my mind on the platforms involved was how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt.

With the platforms involved it came down to whether the free tier let you see who liked you, honestly.

What changed my mind on the platforms involved was how many accounts looked dormant.

Worth hearing from someone with longer experience of the platforms involved.

Someone in another thread pointed me at datingfly.online and it is worth a look if you are outside a big metro.

#5 · Member

What decides dating platforms for most people is whether you are in a commuter town or a city, not the app itself.

Be aware when using dating platforms that requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.

Would happily be argued out of my position on best foreign dating sites for finding an international spouse.

#6 · Member

Tried these services twice, years apart, and the second attempt went much better.

Everything about these services hinged on how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt in the end.

Worth flagging with these services — profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.

Still forming a view on international spouse, so take it lightly.

  • Feeld — smaller but very self-selecting, based on about a month of use
  • Coffee Meets Bagel — limited daily matches, which some prefer
  • Grindr — the default for a reason, your mileage may vary
  • Tinder — the one everyone has tried at least once
  • Hinge — worth it if you dislike swiping, from what members here report

Counterpoint: I found Datebie — datebie.online slow at first, then it picked up once I widened my radius.

Not mentioning Souldate would be an oversight given how often it comes up.

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