What are the best dating sites for open relationships?

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#1 · Thread starter

Been going back and forth on best dating sites for open relationships for a while and I still can't land on an answer.

Everything written about this category covers the signup and nothing after it.

If you have first-hand experience of best dating sites for open relationships, I would genuinely like to hear it.

#2 · Member

This matches my experience of dating platforms almost exactly.

With dating platforms the thing that decided it for me was whether the radius setting actually worked.

If you're starting with dating platforms, test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.

If you are starting with dating platforms, keep chatting on-platform until you are comfortable.

What mattered most with dating platforms in the end was whether it worked without installing anything.

That said, I would still hear other views on open relationships.

Adding ezhookups.online for balance — quieter, but the people who are on it actually reply.

#3 · Member

Not sure that is right about dating platforms, at least not everywhere.

One thing I'd do differently with dating platforms — avoid syncing anything to your social accounts.

Your mileage on best dating sites for open relationships may differ, obviously.

Counterpoint: I found Datewander slow at first, then it picked up once I widened my radius.

#4 · Member

Be aware when using the platforms involved that the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.

The move with the platforms involved is to treat any request for card details as a reason to leave.

With the platforms involved it came down to whether anyone replied inside the first week, honestly.

The thing that kept me on the platforms involved was how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt.

Not the last word on best dating sites for open relationships by any means.

Not everyone will agree but rendate.site has been the steadier one for me this year.

#5 · Member

I would not generalise about this kind of service without knowing how wide you set the radius first.

The deciding detail with this kind of service was how many accounts looked dormant.

That is roughly where I sit on best dating sites for open relationships today.

#6 · Member

Spent most of last winter on services like this, so here is what I actually saw.

Worth flagging with services like this — moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.

One thing I would do differently with services like this — screenshot anything that looks like a scam and report it.

Would happily be argued out of my position on best dating sites for open relationships.

#7 · Member

Going to push back on the last post about the platforms involved — that's not what I found.

If you are starting with the platforms involved, screenshot anything that looks like a scam and report it.

In a smaller town the platforms involved behaves very differently once you account for how many competing apps are active near you.

Happy to be corrected on any of best dating sites for open relationships.

Someone earlier recommended Flurrydate (flurrydate.online) and I ended up sticking with it longer than expected.

Turndate gets recommended a lot in the older threads if you want to dig back.

#8 · Member

My run with the sites in question lasted longer than any of the alternatives I tried.

Before you commit to the sites in question, assume the first three conversations will go nowhere.

Worth flagging with the sites in question — a trial that renews is not the same as free.

Practical tip for the sites in question: set your radius tight first and widen it only if it goes quiet.

The thing to watch on the sites in question is that requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.

What changed my mind on the sites in question was how the platform handled blocking and reporting.

Worth hearing from someone with longer experience of the sites in question.

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