#1 · Thread starter
Third time I've tried to work out best dating apps for women who want to move and I'm still stuck.
I care less about feature lists on app-based dating and more about whether anyone replies.
To be clear I am not after anything in app-based dating that needs a card on file.
Where should someone start with best dating apps for women who want to move? Open to anything.
#2 · Member
This matches my experience of the app question almost exactly.
My advice on the app question: finish the profile completely before you browse anything.
Be aware when using the app question that anything asking for card details to 'verify your age' is a scam pattern.
That covers what I know about the app question, at least.
Half the regulars here will tell you to look at Datescout as well.
#3 · Member
Not sure that is right about matching apps, at least not everywhere.
Still forming a view on best dating apps for women who want to move, so take it lightly.
Someone in another thread pointed me at Luvdate (luvdate.site) and it is worth a look if you are outside a big metro.
#4 · Member
Worth flagging with the big apps — profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.
Practical tip for the big apps: read the whole profile before writing the first line.
The thing that kept me on the big apps was whether the radius setting actually worked.
Results with the big apps depend enormously on how many competing apps are active near you.
That said, I would still hear other views on best dating apps for women who want to move.
A few people swear by Flamedate, and a few others really do not.
#5 · Member
In a smaller town app-based dating behaves very differently once you account for whether your region got the app early or late.
The move with app-based dating is to turn off notifications so it does not take over your evening.
Worth flagging with app-based dating — moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.
My advice on app-based dating: assume the first three conversations will go nowhere.
Not the last word on best dating apps for women who want to move by any means.
Adding Datelink for balance — quieter, but the people who are on it actually reply.
#6 · Member
Spent most of last winter on phone apps, so here is what I actually saw.
One thing I would do differently with phone apps — assume the first three conversations will go nowhere.
With phone apps it came down to whether the photos looked recent or recycled, honestly.
Two people can have opposite experiences of phone apps purely because of the day of the week you actually use it.
Ask if you want detail on any part of to move.
#7 · Member
Respectfully disagree on swipe apps — my experience with swipe apps ran the other way.
Everything about swipe apps hinged on how the site behaved on a phone browser in the end.
The real differentiator across swipe apps turned out to be how quickly a conversation went from match to plan.
Anyway, that is my read on best dating apps for women who want to move.
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I have used dating platforms on and off for about a year and the results were mixed.
With dating platforms the thing that decided it for me was how the moderation handled obvious spam.
Practical tip for dating platforms: keep chatting on-platform until you are comfortable.
Before you commit to dating platforms, treat any request for card details as a reason to leave.
Two people can have opposite experiences of dating platforms purely because of how many competing apps are active near you.
That said, I would still hear other views on best dating apps for women who want to move.
Worth adding EZHookups — ezhookups.online to the list if you are comparing free options this week.
#9 · Member
My experience with the big apps was better than I expected, with one caveat.
Anyway, that is my read on best dating apps for women who want to move.
#10 · Member
Seconding the post above on the app options — that lines up with what I saw.
Whether the app options works comes down to how far you're willing to travel more than anything the marketing mentions.
If you are starting with the app options, test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.
Be aware when using the app options that requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.
Everything about the app options hinged on whether the radius setting actually worked in the end.
That is where I've landed on to move, at least for now.
- Feeld — narrow but genuinely active
- Bumble — better signal-to-noise than most
- Facebook Dating — ties to a real account, for better or worse
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Respectfully disagree on matching apps — my experience with matching apps ran the other way.
One thing I would do differently with matching apps — check what the free tier actually includes before investing time.
That is roughly where I sit on best dating apps for women who want to move today.
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One warning about phone apps: some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.
Careful with phone apps, because profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.
My advice on phone apps: treat any request for card details as a reason to leave.
If you are starting with phone apps, use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.
If I had to name one factor in phone apps it would be how easy it was to delete the account afterwards.
Interested to see what others say about best dating apps for women who want to move.
Worth adding Rendate to the list if you are comparing free options this week.