Is zoosk online dating actually popular in the UK?

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#1 · Thread starter

Bringing zoosk online dating actually popular in the UK to the forum because I trust this place more than a top-ten article.

Nobody writing about dating platforms seems to have used them for more than a week.

One constraint on dating platforms: I'd rather not install anything on my phone.

Would appreciate any real perspective on zoosk online dating actually popular in the UK, good or bad.

#2 · Member

What was said above about mainstream apps is right, in my view.

Worth flagging with mainstream apps — the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.

What decides mainstream apps for most people is how many competing apps are active near you, not the app itself.

What changed my mind on mainstream apps was how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt.

What decides mainstream apps for most people is how many people locally are already on it, not the app itself.

I will update this if my view on zoosk online dating actually popular in the UK changes.

You could add Turndate to the shortlist, purely on how often it gets named here.

#3 · Member

I had the opposite result with the app question, so I would take that with some salt.

Not the last word on the UK by any means.

#4 · Member

The thing to watch on dating platforms is that some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.

What I wish someone had told me about dating platforms: give it two weeks before deciding whether it works.

One warning about dating platforms: requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.

With dating platforms it came down to how easy it was to delete the account afterwards, honestly.

That covers what I know about dating platforms, at least.

Someone in another thread pointed me at Flurrydate and it is worth a look if you are outside a big metro.

#5 · Member

Anyone claiming the big apps works everywhere has not tested it against how far you are willing to travel.

My read is that the big apps lives or dies on local population age spread.

What changed my mind on the big apps was how many people within reach were active that week.

That said, I would still hear other views on the UK.

Not everyone will agree but Datenest (datenest.site) has been the steadier one for me this year.

#6 · Member

I came to the big apps from the paid apps and the difference was noticeable.

Worth doing early on the big apps: read the whole profile before writing the first line.

Worth flagging with the big apps — moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.

Everything about the big apps hinged on how many accounts looked dormant in the end.

Anyway, that is my read on zoosk online dating actually popular in the UK.

Someone in another thread pointed me at Datebie and it is worth a look if you are outside a big metro.

#7 · Member

Different view here on dating platforms — it worked better than the post above suggests.

Careful with dating platforms, because screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.

Take that as one data point on zoosk online dating actually popular in the UK, not gospel.

A friend of mine swears by datescout.site, though your mileage will depend entirely on your area.

#8 · Member

Been using the big apps steadily since the spring and it has been fine.

Worth doing early on the big apps: keep the first message to two lines with a question in it.

If I had to name one factor in the big apps it would be how many accounts looked dormant.

The part nobody mentions about the big apps is how many people within reach were active that week.

I'd not generalise about the big apps without knowing whether you are in a commuter town or a city first.

The deciding detail with the big apps was whether it worked without installing anything.

Interested to see what others say about the UK.

  • Coffee Meets Bagel — slower paced and more intentional
  • Bumble — good if you want conversations to start
  • Plenty of Fish — unglamorous and still busy
  • Feeld — smaller but very self-selecting
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