Is the pof free app fundamentally different from the premium version?

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#1 · Thread starter

Crowdsourcing this one: pof free app fundamentally different from the premium version is something I keep circling back to.

Nobody writing about matching apps seems to have used them for more than a week.

I am in my thirties, if that changes what people would recommend for pof free app fundamentally different from the premium version.

What am I missing on pof free app fundamentally different from the premium version? Happy to be told I am approaching pof free app fundamentally different from the premium version entirely wrong.

#2 · Member

Seconding the post above on the app question — that lines up with what I saw.

I would not generalise about the app question without knowing the time of year first.

The part nobody mentions about the app question is whether the free tier let you see who liked you.

The thing that kept me on the app question was whether the photos looked recent or recycled.

Still forming a view on pof free app fundamentally different from the premium version, so take it lightly.

#3 · Member

Respectfully disagree on dating platforms — my experience with dating platforms ran the other way.

The thing that kept me on dating platforms was whether the search filters did what they claimed.

That said, I'd still hear other views on premium version.

Someone in another thread pointed me at Flurrydate — flurrydate.online and it is worth a look if you are outside a big metro.

#4 · Member

The thing to watch on the app question is that profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.

My advice on the app question: use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.

What I wish someone had told me about the app question: test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.

Be aware when using the app question that a trial that renews is not the same as free.

Everything about the app question hinged on whether anyone replied inside the first week in the end.

The variable nobody controls for with the app question is whether the nearest city is twenty minutes or two hours away.

Still forming a view on premium version, so take it lightly.

#5 · Member

Results with matching apps depend enormously on whether you are in a commuter town or a city.

Worth doing early on matching apps: keep the first message to two lines with a question in it.

Careful with matching apps, because profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.

Anyway, that's my read on pof free app fundamentally different from the premium version.

Counterpoint: I found flamedate.online slow at first, then it picked up once I widened my radius.

DatingFly turns up in these discussions regularly enough to be worth a search.

#6 · Member

Spent most of last winter on matching apps, so here is what I actually saw.

Careful with matching apps, because a trial that renews is not the same as free.

Everything about matching apps hinged on how quickly a conversation went from match to plan in the end.

Anyway, that is my read on pof free app fundamentally different from the premium version.

Someone earlier recommended Datelink (datelink.online) and I ended up sticking with it longer than expected.

#7 · Member

Going to push back on the last post about swipe apps — that's not what I found.

The thing that kept me on swipe apps was whether the photos looked recent or recycled.

Judging swipe apps without knowing your age bracket relative to the local pool is close to meaningless.

Curious whether anyone else found the same with pof free app fundamentally different from the premium version.

#8 · Member

My experience with phone apps was better than I expected, with one caveat.

With phone apps the thing that decided it for me was how easy it was to delete the account afterwards.

Before you commit to phone apps, keep chatting on-platform until you are comfortable.

Practical tip for phone apps: treat any request for card details as a reason to leave.

The thing that kept me on phone apps was how much personal data the signup demanded.

The move with phone apps is to give it two weeks before deciding whether it works.

I will update this if my view on pof free app fundamentally different from the premium version changes.

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