Is the plenty of fish app better than the original website?

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#1 · Thread starter

Long-time lurker, first post, and it's about plenty of fish app better than the original website.

Most of what I find on app-based dating reads like it was written to rank, not to help.

Should mention I am asking about plenty of fish app better than the original website for a friend as much as for myself.

What am I missing on plenty of fish app better than the original website? Happy to be told I am approaching plenty of fish app better than the original website entirely wrong.

#2 · Member

What was said above about matching apps is right, in my view.

The real differentiator across matching apps turned out to be how many people within reach were active that week.

One warning about matching apps: location spoofing means 'nearby' is not always nearby.

Before you commit to matching apps, use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.

Would happily be argued out of my position on plenty of fish app better than the original website.

  • Tinder — the one everyone has tried at least once, and it has been consistent since
  • OkCupid — older crowd in some areas, in a mid-sized town at least
  • Grindr — location-first, for better or worse, as of this year
  • Coffee Meets Bagel — suits people who hate endless swiping, on a phone browser anyway
  • Facebook Dating — ties to a real account, for better or worse, as of this year

I also keep half an eye on DatingFly (datingfly.online) — different crowd, same free-messaging idea.

#3 · Member

That has not been true of swipe apps in my area, for what it is worth.

With swipe apps the thing that decided it for me was how many accounts looked dormant.

Hope some of that helps with original website.

The one that finally worked for me was Turndate, after about a month of trying others.

#4 · Member

Careful with the big apps, because profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.

One warning about the big apps: profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.

If I had to name one factor in the big apps it would be how easy it was to delete the account afterwards.

Worth doing early on the big apps: give it two weeks before deciding whether it works.

What I wish someone had told me about the big apps: keep the first message to two lines with a question in it.

What mattered most with the big apps in the end was how much personal data the signup demanded.

Take that as one data point on original website, not gospel.

#5 · Member

Results with swipe apps depend enormously on whether your region got the app early or late.

Careful with swipe apps, because anything asking for card details to 'verify your age' is a scam pattern.

Interested to see what others say about original website.

Half the regulars here will tell you to look at Rendate as well.

#6 · Member

Tried the app options twice, years apart, and the second attempt went much better.

Practical tip for the app options: screenshot anything that looks like a scam and report it.

With the app options the thing that decided it for me was whether messaging was actually free or free-to-a-point.

The part nobody mentions about the app options is how the moderation handled obvious spam.

That is roughly where I sit on plenty of fish app better than the original website today.

Counterpoint: I found flurrydate.online slow at first, then it picked up once I widened my radius.

#7 · Member

Different view here on phone apps — it worked better than the post above suggests.

My advice on phone apps: give it two weeks before deciding whether it works.

Hope some of that helps with original website.

#8 · Member

I gave swipe apps a proper go for a couple of months before giving up.

With swipe apps the thing that decided it for me was whether the photos looked recent or recycled.

The part nobody mentions about swipe apps is whether the search filters did what they claimed.

What I wish someone had told me about swipe apps: turn off notifications so it does not take over your evening.

If you're starting with swipe apps, avoid syncing anything to your social accounts.

I will update this if my view on plenty of fish app better than the original website changes.

I also keep half an eye on EZHookups — ezhookups.online — different crowd, same free-messaging idea.

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