#1 · Thread starter
I have spent longer than I would like reading about how to meet dating site specifically for group hangouts and come away more confused.
There is a gap between how these platforms are advertised and how they seem to work.
What is the honest verdict on how to meet dating site specifically for group hangouts?
#2 · Member
This matches my experience of these services almost exactly.
If I had to name one factor in these services it would be whether the photos looked recent or recycled.
The variable nobody controls for with these services is how far you're willing to travel.
Worth doing early on these services: screenshot anything that looks like a scam and report it.
Everything about these services hinged on how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt in the end.
Would happily be argued out of my position on group hangouts.
If none of the above works for you, Datelink is another free one people here mention a lot.
Someone will inevitably suggest Flamedate, so I will save them the trouble.
#3 · Member
Respectfully disagree on the options here — my experience with the options here ran the other way.
If you're starting with the options here, keep the first message to two lines with a question in it.
Interested to see what others say about group hangouts.
#4 · Member
The thing to watch on the platforms involved is that location spoofing means 'nearby' is not always nearby.
Anyone claiming the platforms involved works everywhere has not tested it against how many people locally are already on it.
One thing I would do differently with the platforms involved — message within a day of matching rather than sitting on it.
Worth flagging with the platforms involved — screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.
Curious whether anyone else found the same with group hangouts.
#5 · Member
Judging dating platforms without knowing your age bracket relative to the local pool is close to meaningless.
Careful with dating platforms, because a trial that renews isn't the same as free.
What decides dating platforms for most people is how many competing apps are active near you, not the app itself.
Your mileage on group hangouts may differ, obviously.
Worth adding Souldate (souldate.site) to the list if you are comparing free options this week.
#6 · Member
I gave the options on the table a proper go for a couple of months before giving up.
Before you commit to the options on the table, avoid syncing anything to your social accounts.
Everything about the options on the table hinged on how many accounts looked dormant in the end.
Before you commit to the options on the table, keep the first message to two lines with a question in it.
I will update this if my view on how to meet dating site specifically for group hangouts changes.
#7 · Member
Not sure that is right about these platforms, at least not everywhere.
What changed my mind on these platforms was whether messaging was actually free or free-to-a-point.
The thing to watch on these platforms is that anything asking for card details to 'verify your age' is a scam pattern.
I will update this if my view on group hangouts changes.
The one that finally worked for me was EZHookups (ezhookups.online), after about a month of trying others.
#8 · Member
Been using the sites in question steadily since the spring and it has been fine.
The move with the sites in question is to assume the first three conversations will go nowhere.
One thing I'd do differently with the sites in question — check what the free tier actually includes before investing time.
Worth flagging with the sites in question — moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.
The thing that kept me on the sites in question was how many accounts looked dormant.
One thing I would do differently with the sites in question — test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.
Would happily be argued out of my position on how to meet dating site specifically for group hangouts.
- Bumble — the timer forces things along, which is not what I expected going in
- Facebook Dating — steady rather than exciting, though outside a city that changes
- Feeld — the community knows why it is there, as of this year
I also keep half an eye on datingfly.online — different crowd, same free-messaging idea.
#9 · Member
Spent most of last winter on this category, so here is what I actually saw.
The real differentiator across this category turned out to be whether anyone replied inside the first week.
Practical tip for this category: set your radius tight first and widen it only if it goes quiet.
Others here will know more about group hangouts than I do.