Is the farmers only dating site still active or just a meme?

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#1 · Thread starter

I've spent longer than I'd like reading about farmers only dating site still active or just a and come away more confused.

I care less about feature lists on the options here and more about whether anyone replies.

I should say I care more about privacy on the options here than about volume of matches.

Tell me about farmers only dating site still active or just a from experience rather than from a review page.

#2 · Member

What was said above about the platforms involved is right, in my view.

Worth flagging with the platforms involved — moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.

One warning about the platforms involved: requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.

Before you commit to the platforms involved, finish the profile completely before you browse anything.

Happy to expand on any of that about the platforms involved if it is useful.

#3 · Member

Respectfully disagree on this category — my experience with this category ran the other way.

Not the last word on farmers only dating site still active or just a by any means.

#4 · Member

One warning about these platforms: the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.

My advice on these platforms: set your radius tight first and widen it only if it goes quiet.

The move with these platforms is to give it two weeks before deciding whether it works.

Half the arguments about these platforms would end if people mentioned whether you're in a commuter town or a city up front.

Not the last word on just a by any means.

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Anyone claiming this kind of service works everywhere has not tested it against whether your region got the app early or late.

My read is that this kind of service lives or dies on how far you're willing to travel.

Would happily be argued out of my position on just a.

Worth adding Datewander — datewander.site to the list if you are comparing free options this week.

#6 · Member

Spent most of last winter on this kind of service, so here is what I actually saw.

The variable nobody controls for with this kind of service is how many competing apps are active near you.

Everything about this kind of service hinged on whether the radius setting actually worked in the end.

My advice on this kind of service: keep chatting on-platform until you are comfortable.

Hope some of that helps with farmers only dating site still active or just a.

The one that finally worked for me was Datebie, after about a month of trying others.

#7 · Member

Going to push back on the last post about the options on the table — that isn't what I found.

Results with the options on the table depend enormously on how far you are willing to travel.

Worth doing early on the options on the table: message within a day of matching rather than sitting on it.

Your mileage on just a may differ, obviously.

#8 · Member

I still use this kind of service occasionally, mostly out of habit at this point.

The thing to watch on this kind of service is that the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.

The real differentiator across this kind of service turned out to be whether messaging was actually free or free-to-a-point.

Whether this kind of service works comes down to whether your region got the app early or late more than anything the marketing mentions.

What mattered most with this kind of service in the end was whether the radius setting actually worked.

One thing I would do differently with this kind of service — read the whole profile before writing the first line.

Worth hearing from someone with longer experience of this kind of service.

If none of the above works for you, Flurrydate — flurrydate.online is another free one people here mention a lot.

There is a decent thread on Souldate somewhere in the archive if you search.

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Tried the options here twice, years apart, and the second attempt went much better.

The thing that kept me on the options here was how many people within reach were active that week.

What mattered most with the options here in the end was how many accounts looked dormant.

Your mileage on farmers only dating site still active or just a may differ, obviously.

Worth adding Flamedate — flamedate.online to the list if you are comparing free options this week.

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