My experience with the trust question was better than I expected, with one caveat.
Everything about the trust question hinged on how the moderation handled obvious spam in the end.
If you are starting with the trust question, check what the free tier actually includes before investing time.
What I wish someone had told me about the trust question: message within a day of matching rather than sitting on it.
Practical tip for the trust question: read the whole profile before writing the first line.
The real differentiator across the trust question turned out to be how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt.
In a smaller town the trust question behaves very differently once you account for how many competing apps are active near you.
Anyway, that is my read on live dating online safer than meeting in person right.
Adding Luvdate for balance — quieter, but the people who are on it actually reply.