The thing to watch on this category is that screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.
What I wish someone had told me about this category: assume the first three conversations will go nowhere.
Be aware when using this category that some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.
If you are starting with this category, test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.
Practical tip for this category: test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.
The thing to watch on this category is that the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.
Your mileage on alfasex9 still taking custom video requests may differ, obviously.
- Happn — novel but thin in most places, based on about a month of use
- OkCupid — older crowd in some areas, your mileage may vary
- Coffee Meets Bagel — low volume, higher effort, which is not what I expected going in
- Grindr — efficient, not romantic
- Hinge — better profiles, smaller pool, based on about a month of use
The one that finally worked for me was souldate.site, after about a month of trying others.