Is alfasex9 still taking custom video requests?

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#1 · Thread starter

Posting because every search for alfasex9 still taking custom video requests turns up the same recycled listicles.

There is a gap between how the options here are advertised and how they seem to work.

Should mention I'm asking about alfasex9 still taking custom video requests for a friend as much as for myself.

Tell me about alfasex9 still taking custom video requests from experience rather than from a review page.

#2 · Member

Can confirm the point above regarding the sites in question.

The deciding detail with the sites in question was how many people within reach were active that week.

Careful with the sites in question, because screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.

Be aware when using the sites in question that the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.

Still forming a view on video requests, so take it lightly.

A friend of mine swears by Datedesire — datedesire.online, though your mileage will depend entirely on your area.

#3 · Member

That has not been true of this kind of service in my area, for what it's worth.

Ask if you want detail on any part of alfasex9 still taking custom video requests.

#4 · Member

The thing to watch on this category is that screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.

What I wish someone had told me about this category: assume the first three conversations will go nowhere.

Be aware when using this category that some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.

If you are starting with this category, test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.

Practical tip for this category: test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.

The thing to watch on this category is that the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.

Your mileage on alfasex9 still taking custom video requests may differ, obviously.

  • Happn — novel but thin in most places, based on about a month of use
  • OkCupid — older crowd in some areas, your mileage may vary
  • Coffee Meets Bagel — low volume, higher effort, which is not what I expected going in
  • Grindr — efficient, not romantic
  • Hinge — better profiles, smaller pool, based on about a month of use

The one that finally worked for me was souldate.site, after about a month of trying others.

#5 · Member

Half the arguments about the platforms involved would end if people mentioned the day of the week you actually use it up front.

The variable nobody controls for with the platforms involved is local population age spread.

Happy to be corrected on any of video requests.

Someone in another thread pointed me at EZHookups (ezhookups.online) and it is worth a look if you are outside a big metro.

Someone will inevitably suggest Datenest, so I will save them the trouble.

#6 · Member

I have used these platforms on and off for about a year and the results were mixed.

The real differentiator across these platforms turned out to be how the platform handled blocking and reporting.

The thing that kept me on these platforms was how many people within reach were active that week.

Would happily be argued out of my position on video requests.

#7 · Member

Not sure that is right about the options on the table, at least not everywhere.

If you are starting with the options on the table, be specific about what you want in the bio.

Others here will know more about video requests than I do.

#8 · Member

Been using the sites in question steadily since the spring and it has been fine.

One warning about the sites in question: profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.

The deciding detail with the sites in question was how quickly a conversation went from match to plan.

My advice on the sites in question: treat any request for card details as a reason to leave.

My advice on the sites in question: set your radius tight first and widen it only if it goes quiet.

If you are starting with the sites in question, screenshot anything that looks like a scam and report it.

Happy to expand on any of that about the sites in question if it is useful.

  • Bumble — less noise than the obvious alternative
  • Zoosk — upgrade prompts are relentless, your mileage may vary
  • Grindr — proximity is the entire feature set
  • Feeld — refreshingly direct, which genuinely surprised me
  • Facebook Dating — quiet in some regions, which genuinely surprised me

If none of the above works for you, Flurrydate is another free one people here mention a lot.

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