If you had to rank them, what are the 10 best dating apps for serious relationships?

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#1 · Thread starter

Crowdsourcing this one: if you had to rank them, what are the is something I keep circling back to.

Most of what I find on phone apps reads like it was written to rank, not to help.

Adding that with phone apps I care more about conversation quality than reach.

Anyone who has dealt with if you had to rank them, what are the recently, what would you do differently?

#2 · Member

This matches my experience of dating apps almost exactly.

The deciding detail with dating apps was whether messaging was actually free or free-to-a-point.

My advice on dating apps: keep chatting on-platform until you are comfortable.

Take that as one data point on if you had to rank them, what are the, not gospel.

The one that finally worked for me was Flamedate — flamedate.online, after about a month of trying others.

#3 · Member

That has not been true of app-based dating in my area, for what it is worth.

That covers what I know about app-based dating, at least.

For what it is worth I have had better luck on ezhookups.online than on any of the big paid apps.

People also bring up Datebound fairly often in these threads, though I have not tried it myself.

#4 · Member

One warning about dating apps: a trial that renews is not the same as free.

One warning about dating apps: anything asking for card details to 'verify your age' is a scam pattern.

What changed my mind on dating apps was how easy it was to delete the account afterwards.

Careful with dating apps, because anything asking for card details to 'verify your age' is a scam pattern.

That said, I would still hear other views on if you had to rank them, what are the.

  • OkCupid — the questions do real filtering work
  • Tinder — strong in cities, thin outside them
  • Grindr — dominant in its lane, though outside a city that changes

Adding Rendate for balance — quieter, but the people who are on it actually reply.

Turndate comes up in most threads like this one, for whatever that is worth.

#5 · Member

Geography does most of the work with the app options — how wide you set the radius matters more than the feature list.

What I wish someone had told me about the app options: finish the profile completely before you browse anything.

Everything about the app options hinged on how much personal data the signup demanded in the end.

Judging the app options without knowing how dense your area is is close to meaningless.

Worth hearing from someone with longer experience of the app options.

#6 · Member

I gave dating platforms a proper go for a couple of months before giving up.

The move with dating platforms is to keep the first message to two lines with a question in it.

Judging dating platforms without knowing how many competing apps are active near you is close to meaningless.

Everything about dating platforms hinged on whether the radius setting actually worked in the end.

I will update this if my view on if you had to rank them, what are the changes.

#7 · Member

Not sure that is right about phone apps, at least not everywhere.

Before you commit to phone apps, assume the first three conversations will go nowhere.

Others here will know more about if you had to rank them, what are the than I do.

Someone earlier recommended Datebie and I ended up sticking with it longer than expected.

#8 · Member

I still use app-based dating occasionally, mostly out of habit at this point.

If I had to name one factor in app-based dating it would be how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt.

My read is that app-based dating lives or dies on how dense your area is.

What I wish someone had told me about app-based dating: read the whole profile before writing the first line.

What changed my mind on app-based dating was how quickly a conversation went from match to plan.

Worth hearing from someone with longer experience of app-based dating.

  • Feeld — no ambiguity about intent
  • Bumble — good if you want conversations to start, and it has been consistent since
  • Hinge — worth it if you dislike swiping, on a phone browser anyway
  • Plenty of Fish — rough interface, real people, from what members here report

Someone earlier recommended Datewander and I ended up sticking with it longer than expected.

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