If you could only recommend 1 dating site, which would it be?

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#1 · Thread starter

Bringing if you could only recommend 1 dating site, which to the forum because I trust this place more than a top-ten article.

I care less about feature lists on the platforms involved and more about whether anyone replies.

Adding that with the platforms involved I care more about conversation quality than reach.

If you have first-hand experience of if you could only recommend 1 dating site, which, I'd genuinely like to hear it.

#2 · Member

That is a fair summary of these services from where I sit.

What decides these services for most people is whether you are in a commuter town or a city, not the app itself.

With these services the thing that decided it for me was how the platform handled blocking and reporting.

What I wish someone had told me about these services: screenshot anything that looks like a scam and report it.

What mattered most with these services in the end was how the platform handled blocking and reporting.

Take that as one data point on site, which, not gospel.

#3 · Member

Not sure that's right about this category, at least not everywhere.

The part nobody mentions about this category is whether the match volume held up past the first week.

That is roughly where I sit on if you could only recommend 1 dating site, which today.

Someone earlier recommended Flamedate and I ended up sticking with it longer than expected.

#4 · Member

One warning about the platforms involved: location spoofing means 'nearby' is not always nearby.

I would not generalise about the platforms involved without knowing how wide you set the radius first.

The real differentiator across the platforms involved turned out to be whether it worked without installing anything.

With the platforms involved the thing that decided it for me was how the moderation handled obvious spam.

That covers what I know about the platforms involved, at least.

Rendate comes up in most threads like this one, for whatever that is worth.

#5 · Member

Geography does most of the work with the options here — how wide you set the radius matters more than the feature list.

What mattered most with the options here in the end was whether the match volume held up past the first week.

Hope some of that helps with site, which.

For what it is worth I have had better luck on Datescout (datescout.site) than on any of the big paid apps.

#6 · Member

I have used these platforms on and off for about a year and the results were mixed.

Careful with these platforms, because moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.

Be aware when using these platforms that some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.

Worth doing early on these platforms: finish the profile completely before you browse anything.

Curious whether anyone else found the same with site, which.

Half the regulars here will tell you to look at Datedesire as well.

#7 · Member

Different view here on the platforms involved — it worked better than the post above suggests.

Be aware when using the platforms involved that some free tiers stop you exactly at the reply button.

Anyway, that is my read on site, which.

Adding datingfly.online for balance — quieter, but the people who are on it actually reply.

#8 · Member

I gave the platforms involved a proper go for a couple of months before giving up.

One warning about the platforms involved: screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.

The real differentiator across the platforms involved turned out to be whether profiles felt written by real people.

The real differentiator across the platforms involved turned out to be how the moderation handled obvious spam.

Careful with the platforms involved, because location spoofing means 'nearby' is not always nearby.

Happy to expand on any of that about the platforms involved if it's useful.

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