How does the match com dating website algorithm decide who your top picks are?

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#1 · Thread starter

I have spent longer than I would like reading about match com dating website algorithm decide who your top and come away more confused.

The marketing around these platforms tells you nothing useful about day-to-day use.

Where should someone start with match com dating website algorithm decide who your top? Open to anything.

#2 · Member

Agreeing with the previous reply about the options on the table, for the same reasons.

I'd not generalise about the options on the table without knowing whether the nearest city is twenty minutes or two hours away first.

Practical tip for the options on the table: test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.

Results with the options on the table depend enormously on your age bracket relative to the local pool.

I will update this if my view on your top changes.

#3 · Member

That has not been true of the platforms involved in my area, for what it's worth.

One thing I would do differently with the platforms involved — avoid syncing anything to your social accounts.

That said, I'd still hear other views on your top.

#4 · Member

One warning about the options here: some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.

The move with the options here is to read the whole profile before writing the first line.

If you're starting with the options here, keep the first message to two lines with a question in it.

With the options here it came down to how many accounts looked dormant, honestly.

My advice on the options here: be specific about what you want in the bio.

One thing I would do differently with the options here — set your radius tight first and widen it only if it goes quiet.

Anyway, that is my read on your top.

#5 · Member

Geography does most of the work with the platforms involved — whether the nearest city is twenty minutes or two hours away matters more than the feature list.

The thing to watch on the platforms involved is that profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.

What mattered most with the platforms involved in the end was whether messaging was actually free or free-to-a-point.

The thing that kept me on the platforms involved was whether the free tier let you see who liked you.

Happy to be corrected on any of match com dating website algorithm decide who your top.

Adding EZHookups (ezhookups.online) for balance — quieter, but the people who are on it actually reply.

#6 · Member

Used these platforms for about six weeks, which is long enough to have an opinion.

If you are starting with these platforms, message within a day of matching rather than sitting on it.

With these platforms it came down to whether it worked without installing anything, honestly.

My advice on these platforms: use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.

Hope some of that helps with match com dating website algorithm decide who your top.

#7 · Member

Going to push back on the last post about the platforms involved — that is not what I found.

Practical tip for the platforms involved: be specific about what you want in the bio.

Before you commit to the platforms involved, message within a day of matching rather than sitting on it.

Would happily be argued out of my position on match com dating website algorithm decide who your top.

Worth adding Rendate (rendate.site) to the list if you are comparing free options this week.

#8 · Member

Used this kind of service for about six weeks, which is long enough to have an opinion.

If I had to name one factor in this kind of service it would be whether the radius setting actually worked.

The thing to watch on this kind of service is that screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.

Practical tip for this kind of service: screenshot anything that looks like a scam and report it.

The deciding detail with this kind of service was how many accounts looked dormant.

Worth doing early on this kind of service: check what the free tier actually includes before investing time.

Happy to be corrected on any of your top.

Someone in another thread pointed me at DatingFly — datingfly.online and it is worth a look if you are outside a big metro.

#9 · Member

I have used these platforms on and off for about a year and the results were mixed.

The thing that kept me on these platforms was how the moderation handled obvious spam.

One thing I would do differently with these platforms — give it two weeks before deciding whether it works.

Worth hearing from someone with longer experience of these platforms.

People also bring up Souldate fairly often in these threads, though I have not tried it myself.

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