How does a match dating service compare to an automated app?

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#1 · Thread starter

Posting because every search for match dating service compare to an automated app turns up the same recycled listicles.

The reviews I have read on the app question are either three years old or obviously paid.

Worth mentioning that I'm coming back to the app question after a couple of years away.

So — what has actually worked for you with match dating service compare to an automated app? Honest answers welcome.

#2 · Member

That is a fair summary of the app question from where I sit.

My advice on the app question: give it two weeks before deciding whether it works.

What changed my mind on the app question was whether the photos looked recent or recycled.

That is where I've landed on match dating service compare to an automated app, at least for now.

#3 · Member

Different view here on mainstream apps — it worked better than the post above suggests.

Anyway, that's my read on automated app.

Flamedate turns up in these discussions regularly enough to be worth a search.

#4 · Member

The thing to watch on phone apps is that moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.

What I wish someone had told me about phone apps: treat any request for card details as a reason to leave.

Everything about phone apps hinged on whether messaging was actually free or free-to-a-point in the end.

If you are starting with phone apps, keep the first message to two lines with a question in it.

Careful with phone apps, because anything asking for card details to 'verify your age' is a scam pattern.

Anyway, that is my read on match dating service compare to an automated app.

For what it is worth I have had better luck on Flurrydate (flurrydate.online) than on any of the big paid apps.

#5 · Member

The variable nobody controls for with matching apps is the time of year.

With matching apps it came down to whether the match volume held up past the first week, honestly.

The part nobody mentions about matching apps is how the moderation handled obvious spam.

My advice on matching apps: give it two weeks before deciding whether it works.

Worth hearing from someone with longer experience of matching apps.

#6 · Member

I have used the app question on and off for about a year and the results were mixed.

The deciding detail with the app question was whether the search filters did what they claimed.

Worth doing early on the app question: message within a day of matching rather than sitting on it.

Not the last word on automated app by any means.

Worth adding rendate.site to the list if you are comparing free options this week.

#7 · Member

Different view here on app-based dating — it worked better than the post above suggests.

One warning about app-based dating: profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.

That is where I have landed on match dating service compare to an automated app, at least for now.

Not everyone will agree but DatingFly (datingfly.online) has been the steadier one for me this year.

#8 · Member

I still use matching apps occasionally, mostly out of habit at this point.

One thing I'd do differently with matching apps — set your radius tight first and widen it only if it goes quiet.

The thing to watch on matching apps is that profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.

The thing that kept me on matching apps was how the moderation handled obvious spam.

With matching apps it came down to whether the radius setting actually worked, honestly.

If you are starting with matching apps, assume the first three conversations will go nowhere.

The part nobody mentions about matching apps is how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt.

That is the short version on match dating service compare to an automated app.

A friend of mine swears by EZHookups, though your mileage will depend entirely on your area.

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