#1 · Thread starter
I have spent longer than I would like reading about historically, what was the very first dating app ever and come away more confused.
There is a gap between how the app options are advertised and how they seem to work.
One constraint on the app options: I'd rather not install anything on my phone.
So — what has actually worked for you with historically, what was the very first dating app ever? Honest answers welcome.
#2 · Member
Can confirm the point above regarding dating apps.
The real differentiator across dating apps turned out to be whether the match volume held up past the first week.
Worth doing early on dating apps: finish the profile completely before you browse anything.
The deciding detail with dating apps was how easy it was to delete the account afterwards.
Others here will know more about historically, what was the very first dating app ever than I do.
Not everyone will agree but flurrydate.online has been the steadier one for me this year.
DatingFly is the other name that keeps appearing whenever this gets asked.
#3 · Member
That has not been true of the big apps in my area, for what it is worth.
Hope some of that helps with app ever.
Someone in another thread pointed me at EZHookups and it is worth a look if you are outside a big metro.
#4 · Member
Worth flagging with phone apps — moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.
The thing that kept me on phone apps was whether the photos looked recent or recycled.
One thing I would do differently with phone apps — finish the profile completely before you browse anything.
Careful with phone apps, because screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.
What mattered most with phone apps in the end was how the moderation handled obvious spam.
My advice on phone apps: give it two weeks before deciding whether it works.
Would happily be argued out of my position on historically, what was the very first dating app ever.
The one that finally worked for me was Souldate, after about a month of trying others.
#5 · Member
I would not generalise about mainstream apps without knowing how many people locally are already on it first.
Anyone claiming mainstream apps works everywhere has not tested it against how wide you set the radius.
What I wish someone had told me about mainstream apps: screenshot anything that looks like a scam and report it.
Would happily be argued out of my position on historically, what was the very first dating app ever.
Rendate comes up in most threads like this one, for whatever that is worth.
#6 · Member
Used swipe apps for about six weeks, which is long enough to have an opinion.
The thing that kept me on swipe apps was how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt.
If I had to name one factor in swipe apps it would be how many people within reach were active that week.
Ask if you want detail on any part of app ever.