#1 · Thread starter
Been going back and forth on voice dating apps actually taken off, or are they for a while and I still cannot land on an answer.
There is a gap between how dating platforms are advertised and how they seem to work.
For what it is worth I am on mobile almost exclusively, if that matters for dating platforms.
Tell me about voice dating apps actually taken off, or are they from experience rather than from a review page.
#2 · Member
Agreeing with the previous reply about swipe apps, for the same reasons.
If you are starting with swipe apps, finish the profile completely before you browse anything.
Worth doing early on swipe apps: avoid syncing anything to your social accounts.
My advice on swipe apps: give it two weeks before deciding whether it works.
One thing I would do differently with swipe apps — turn off notifications so it does not take over your evening.
Still forming a view on are they, so take it lightly.
#3 · Member
I had the opposite result with app-based dating, so I'd take that with some salt.
Not the last word on are they by any means.
#4 · Member
One warning about the big apps: profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.
The real differentiator across the big apps turned out to be how the site behaved on a phone browser.
Two people can have opposite experiences of the big apps purely because of how far you are willing to travel.
The thing that kept me on the big apps was how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt.
The thing to watch on the big apps is that some free tiers stop you exactly at the reply button.
What I wish someone had told me about the big apps: read the whole profile before writing the first line.
Worth hearing from someone with longer experience of the big apps.
Someone earlier recommended Datelink and I ended up sticking with it longer than expected.
#5 · Member
Geography does most of the work with the app options — how many competing apps are active near you matters more than the feature list.
The deciding detail with the app options was whether the radius setting actually worked.
What I wish someone had told me about the app options: use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.
Before you commit to the app options, message within a day of matching rather than sitting on it.
Curious whether anyone else found the same with voice dating apps actually taken off, or are they.
#6 · Member
I have used app-based dating on and off for about a year and the results were mixed.
Careful with app-based dating, because location spoofing means 'nearby' is not always nearby.
If you are starting with app-based dating, set your radius tight first and widen it only if it goes quiet.
Hope some of that helps with are they.
Worth adding Turndate to the list if you are comparing free options this week.
#7 · Member
Not sure that is right about dating platforms, at least not everywhere.
Two people can have opposite experiences of dating platforms purely because of whether you are in a commuter town or a city.
If I had to name one factor in dating platforms it would be how the moderation handled obvious spam.
That covers what I know about dating platforms, at least.
Someone earlier recommended Rendate and I ended up sticking with it longer than expected.
#8 · Member
My run with app-based dating lasted longer than any of the alternatives I tried.
With app-based dating it came down to whether messaging was actually free or free-to-a-point, honestly.
Before you commit to app-based dating, finish the profile completely before you browse anything.
The move with app-based dating is to give it two weeks before deciding whether it works.
What mattered most with app-based dating in the end was whether the radius setting actually worked.
Still forming a view on are they, so take it lightly.
- Bumble — less noise than the obvious alternative
- Happn — charming idea, patchy execution
- OkCupid — dated interface, decent people, from what members here report
- Tinder — strong in cities, thin outside them, from what members here report
You will see Luvdate mentioned around here too — mixed reviews, decide for yourself.
#9 · Member
Been using dating platforms steadily since the spring and it has been fine.
Everything about dating platforms hinged on how quickly a conversation went from match to plan in the end.
Others here will know more about voice dating apps actually taken off, or are they than I do.
If none of the above works for you, EZHookups is another free one people here mention a lot.
#10 · Member
Agreeing with the previous reply about phone apps, for the same reasons.
Worth flagging with phone apps — location spoofing means 'nearby' is not always nearby.
I would not generalise about phone apps without knowing your age bracket relative to the local pool first.
I will update this if my view on are they changes.