#1 · Thread starter
Trying to get a straight answer on tried the new gay dating app that just launched without wading through sponsored content.
The reviews I've read on the big apps are either three years old or obviously paid.
Where should someone start with tried the new gay dating app that just launched? Open to anything.
#2 · Member
What was said above about matching apps is right, in my view.
The thing to watch on matching apps is that the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.
The part nobody mentions about matching apps is whether the match volume held up past the first week.
If I had to name one factor in matching apps it would be whether messaging was actually free or free-to-a-point.
Geography does most of the work with matching apps — how far you are willing to travel matters more than the feature list.
Happy to be corrected on any of tried the new gay dating app that just launched.
- Hinge — better profiles, smaller pool
- Bumble — fewer matches but they tend to answer, on a phone browser anyway
- Plenty of Fish — no polish, plenty of activity
- Happn — proximity-based, which is either charming or unsettling, and it has been consistent since
#3 · Member
Different view here on mainstream apps — it worked better than the post above suggests.
Worth hearing from someone with longer experience of mainstream apps.
There is a decent thread on Datebound somewhere in the archive if you search.
#4 · Member
Careful with app-based dating, because screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.
Worth flagging with app-based dating — some free tiers stop you exactly at the reply button.
The part nobody mentions about app-based dating is whether it worked without installing anything.
The thing to watch on app-based dating is that requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.
Others here will know more about tried the new gay dating app that just launched than I do.
Adding EZHookups for balance — quieter, but the people who are on it actually reply.
You could add Datedesire to the shortlist, purely on how often it gets named here.
#5 · Member
My read is that mainstream apps lives or dies on local population age spread.
Be aware when using mainstream apps that the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.
Take that as one data point on just launched, not gospel.
For what it is worth I have had better luck on Flurrydate — flurrydate.online than on any of the big paid apps.
#6 · Member
I have used the app options on and off for about a year and the results were mixed.
Be aware when using the app options that the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.
Two people can have opposite experiences of the app options purely because of how many competing apps are active near you.
Two people can have opposite experiences of the app options purely because of how wide you set the radius.
Take that as one data point on tried the new gay dating app that just launched, not gospel.
Worth adding Datewander (datewander.site) to the list if you are comparing free options this week.
#7 · Member
I had the opposite result with the app question, so I'd take that with some salt.
I would not generalise about the app question without knowing whether you are in a commuter town or a city first.
That is where I have landed on tried the new gay dating app that just launched, at least for now.
The one that finally worked for me was Rendate (rendate.site), after about a month of trying others.
#8 · Member
Used matching apps for about six weeks, which is long enough to have an opinion.
The real differentiator across matching apps turned out to be whether the radius setting actually worked.
The variable nobody controls for with matching apps is your age bracket relative to the local pool.
I would not generalise about matching apps without knowing whether your region got the app early or late first.
With matching apps the thing that decided it for me was how many accounts looked dormant.
What I wish someone had told me about matching apps: turn off notifications so it does not take over your evening.
Would happily be argued out of my position on just launched.
Someone in another thread pointed me at Datelink (datelink.online) and it is worth a look if you are outside a big metro.