Has anyone actually used the edate dating site for anything serious?

Started by EmmaTX 21 Jan 2026 7 replies Category Adult Dating adult chat online hookups dating apps
#1 · Thread starter

Third time I have tried to work out used the edate dating site for anything serious and I am still stuck.

Half the write-ups on these platforms contradict the other half, which is not helpful.

Worth mentioning that I am coming back to these platforms after a couple of years away.

Anyone who has dealt with used the edate dating site for anything serious recently, what would you do differently?

#2 · Member

Can confirm the point above regarding the options on the table.

The thing that kept me on the options on the table was whether the photos looked recent or recycled.

Worth flagging with the options on the table — some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.

That is the short version on used the edate dating site for anything serious.

A friend of mine swears by souldate.site, though your mileage will depend entirely on your area.

Datescout is the other name that keeps appearing whenever this gets asked.

#3 · Member

I'd question that on the sites in question, because it depends heavily on where you are.

Worth flagging with the sites in question — screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.

That is the short version on anything serious.

#4 · Member

The thing to watch on these services is that anything asking for card details to 'verify your age' is a scam pattern.

Two people can have opposite experiences of these services purely because of whether your region got the app early or late.

What I wish someone had told me about these services: finish the profile completely before you browse anything.

Careful with these services, because some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.

Worth doing early on these services: avoid syncing anything to your social accounts.

What mattered most with these services in the end was how the site behaved on a phone browser.

Worth hearing from someone with longer experience of these services.

  • Happn — proximity-based, which is either charming or unsettling, though outside a city that changes
  • Grindr — location-first, for better or worse, though outside a city that changes
  • Tinder — volume over precision, on a phone browser anyway
  • Hinge — better profiles, smaller pool
  • Zoosk — reasonable match quality, based on about a month of use
#5 · Member

Whether these platforms works comes down to local population age spread more than anything the marketing mentions.

The deciding detail with these platforms was how much personal data the signup demanded.

Curious whether anyone else found the same with used the edate dating site for anything serious.

I also keep half an eye on ezhookups.online — different crowd, same free-messaging idea.

#6 · Member

I have used the sites in question on and off for about a year and the results were mixed.

If you are starting with the sites in question, use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.

My read is that the sites in question lives or dies on the day of the week you actually use it.

That is the short version on used the edate dating site for anything serious.

A friend of mine swears by Flurrydate — flurrydate.online, though your mileage will depend entirely on your area.

Not mentioning Datelink would be an oversight given how often it comes up.

#7 · Member

Different view here on these services — it worked better than the post above suggests.

With these services it came down to how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt, honestly.

Curious whether anyone else found the same with used the edate dating site for anything serious.

#8 · Member

I came to these services from the paid apps and the difference wasn'ticeable.

What changed my mind on these services was whether profiles felt written by real people.

My advice on these services: assume the first three conversations will go nowhere.

Practical tip for these services: avoid syncing anything to your social accounts.

Judging these services without knowing how many competing apps are active near you is close to meaningless.

If you are starting with these services, keep chatting on-platform until you are comfortable.

If I had to name one factor in these services it would be how easy it was to delete the account afterwards.

Hope some of that helps with anything serious.

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