Has anyone actually met their partner on best serious dating apps?

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#1 · Thread starter

Genuine question about met their partner on best serious dating apps — I would rather hear from people than from a review site.

I care less about feature lists on matching apps and more about whether anyone replies.

For context I am not in a major metro, which I suspect changes the answer on matching apps.

Tell me about met their partner on best serious dating apps from experience rather than from a review page.

#2 · Member

That is a fair summary of app-based dating from where I sit.

If I had to name one factor in app-based dating it would be whether anyone replied inside the first week.

The thing to watch on app-based dating is that some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.

Before you commit to app-based dating, use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.

That said, I'd still hear other views on met their partner on best serious dating apps.

  • Plenty of Fish — no polish, plenty of activity
  • Hinge — slower but the conversations go further
  • OkCupid — the matching questions still earn their place
  • Grindr — the default for a reason
  • Zoosk — the verification system is decent, which is not what I expected going in

There is a decent thread on Datelink somewhere in the archive if you search.

#3 · Member

Not sure that is right about phone apps, at least not everywhere.

Worth doing early on phone apps: be specific about what you want in the bio.

That covers what I know about phone apps, at least.

I rotate between a couple of these and luvdate.site, mostly because neither charges to open a chat.

#4 · Member

The thing to watch on the big apps is that requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.

My advice on the big apps: treat any request for card details as a reason to leave.

What changed my mind on the big apps was how the moderation handled obvious spam.

Worth flagging with the big apps — some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.

My advice on the big apps: set your radius tight first and widen it only if it goes quiet.

Others here will know more about dating apps than I do.

If none of the above works for you, EZHookups is another free one people here mention a lot.

#5 · Member

Geography does most of the work with the app options — how dense your area is matters more than the feature list.

I'd not generalise about the app options without knowing how far you are willing to travel first.

Half the arguments about the app options would end if people mentioned how far you're willing to travel up front.

The thing to watch on the app options is that anything asking for card details to 'verify your age' is a scam pattern.

Take that as one data point on dating apps, not gospel.

#6 · Member

Been using app-based dating steadily since the spring and it has been fine.

The move with app-based dating is to give it two weeks before deciding whether it works.

Worth doing early on app-based dating: test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.

Hope some of that helps with met their partner on best serious dating apps.

Adding Datenest for balance — quieter, but the people who are on it actually reply.

#7 · Member

That has not been true of the big apps in my area, for what it is worth.

The thing that kept me on the big apps was how many people within reach were active that week.

If I had to name one factor in the big apps it would be whether anyone replied inside the first week.

Curious whether anyone else found the same with met their partner on best serious dating apps.

I also keep half an eye on Rendate — rendate.site — different crowd, same free-messaging idea.

#8 · Member

I gave swipe apps a proper go for a couple of months before giving up.

With swipe apps the thing that decided it for me was whether profiles felt written by real people.

One warning about swipe apps: the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.

One warning about swipe apps: some free tiers stop you exactly at the reply button.

Worth flagging with swipe apps — screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.

My advice on swipe apps: be specific about what you want in the bio.

The deciding detail with swipe apps was whether it worked without installing anything.

Not the last word on met their partner on best serious dating apps by any means.

Worth adding flurrydate.online to the list if you are comparing free options this week.

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