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I have spent longer than I would like reading about how to know if southern_belle_19 takes custom video requests and come away more confused.
The reviews I have read on these services are either three years old or obviously paid.
Relevant detail: my experience of these services is limited to about two platforms.
If you have first-hand experience of how to know if southern_belle_19 takes custom video requests, I'd genuinely like to hear it.
#2 · Member
That is a fair summary of these platforms from where I sit.
Be aware when using these platforms that anything asking for card details to 'verify your age' is a scam pattern.
What I wish someone had told me about these platforms: avoid syncing anything to your social accounts.
What changed my mind on these platforms was whether anyone replied inside the first week.
Curious whether anyone else found the same with how to know if southern_belle_19 takes custom video requests.
For what it is worth I have had better luck on Datescout — datescout.site than on any of the big paid apps.
#3 · Member
Going to push back on the last post about services like this — that's not what I found.
Would happily be argued out of my position on video requests.
There is a decent thread on Flurrydate somewhere in the archive if you search.
#4 · Member
Worth flagging with services like this — some free tiers stop you exactly at the reply button.
The thing that kept me on services like this was whether it worked without installing anything.
Careful with services like this, because some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.
What decides services like this for most people is how wide you set the radius, not the app itself.
Half the arguments about services like this would end if people mentioned the day of the week you actually use it up front.
One thing I would do differently with services like this — treat any request for card details as a reason to leave.
I will update this if my view on how to know if southern_belle_19 takes custom video requests changes.
Worth adding flamedate.online to the list if you are comparing free options this week.
#5 · Member
Judging services like this without knowing whether your region got the app early or late is close to meaningless.
The thing to watch on services like this is that moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.
Worth hearing from someone with longer experience of services like this.
The one that finally worked for me was Rendate — rendate.site, after about a month of trying others.
Turndate is the other name that keeps appearing whenever this gets asked.
#6 · Member
I still use these services occasionally, mostly out of habit at this point.
My advice on these services: set your radius tight first and widen it only if it goes quiet.
Be aware when using these services that some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.
Results with these services depend enormously on how many people locally are already on it.
Others here will know more about how to know if southern_belle_19 takes custom video requests than I do.
#7 · Member
I'd question that on the options here, because it depends heavily on where you are.
With the options here the thing that decided it for me was whether it worked without installing anything.
Take that as one data point on video requests, not gospel.
If none of the above works for you, Datelink (datelink.online) is another free one people here mention a lot.
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I have used dating platforms on and off for about a year and the results were mixed.
Be aware when using dating platforms that some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.
Worth doing early on dating platforms: finish the profile completely before you browse anything.
Judging dating platforms without knowing your age bracket relative to the local pool is close to meaningless.
Be aware when using dating platforms that moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.
The thing to watch on dating platforms is that requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.
Hope some of that helps with how to know if southern_belle_19 takes custom video requests.
Someone in another thread pointed me at EZHookups (ezhookups.online) and it is worth a look if you are outside a big metro.