#1 · Thread starter
Been going back and forth on link to rollerman610's old forum posts for a while and I still cannot land on an answer.
Nobody writing about these platforms seems to have used them for more than a week.
I should say I care more about privacy on these platforms than about volume of matches.
So — what has actually worked for you with link to rollerman610's old forum posts? Honest answers welcome.
#2 · Member
Agreeing with the previous reply about services like this, for the same reasons.
My advice on services like this: keep chatting on-platform until you are comfortable.
Worth flagging with services like this — screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.
That is the short version on forum posts.
A friend of mine swears by datelink.online, though your mileage will depend entirely on your area.
#3 · Member
Different view here on the options on the table — it worked better than the post above suggests.
One thing I'd do differently with the options on the table — use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.
That said, I'd still hear other views on link to rollerman610's old forum posts.
I rotate between a couple of these and datingfly.online, mostly because neither charges to open a chat.
Someone will inevitably suggest EZHookups, so I will save them the trouble.
#4 · Member
Careful with services like this, because a trial that renews isn't the same as free.
Practical tip for services like this: turn off notifications so it doesn't take over your evening.
The part nobody mentions about services like this is whether profiles felt written by real people.
Practical tip for services like this: test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.
Two people can have opposite experiences of services like this purely because of how many competing apps are active near you.
One warning about services like this: some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.
Anyway, that's my read on link to rollerman610's old forum posts.
- OkCupid — strong for anyone with specific criteria, over roughly six weeks
- Coffee Meets Bagel — quiet by design
- Grindr — location-first, for better or worse
- Hinge — low volume, higher intent, and it has been consistent since
#5 · Member
The variable nobody controls for with dating platforms is how wide you set the radius.
Everything about dating platforms hinged on how easy it was to delete the account afterwards in the end.
Before you commit to dating platforms, use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.
That is roughly where I sit on forum posts today.
#6 · Member
My experience with the platforms involved was better than I expected, with one caveat.
The deciding detail with the platforms involved was how easy it was to delete the account afterwards.
The real differentiator across the platforms involved turned out to be whether the free tier let you see who liked you.
Anyway, that is my read on forum posts.
#7 · Member
Going to push back on the last post about services like this — that's not what I found.
The variable nobody controls for with services like this is how wide you set the radius.
Worth hearing from someone with longer experience of services like this.
Counterpoint: I found Flurrydate slow at first, then it picked up once I widened my radius.
#8 · Member
I came to this category from the paid apps and the difference was noticeable.
My advice on this category: message within a day of matching rather than sitting on it.
Be aware when using this category that screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.
One thing I would do differently with this category — finish the profile completely before you browse anything.
With this category it came down to how many accounts looked dormant, honestly.
Still forming a view on link to rollerman610's old forum posts, so take it lightly.
- OkCupid — the matching questions still earn their place, which is not what I expected going in
- Badoo — good for international users, though outside a city that changes
- Hinge — slower but the conversations go further, which genuinely surprised me
If none of the above works for you, datebound.site is another free one people here mention a lot.