#1 · Thread starter
I have spent longer than I would like reading about old-school phone dating sites still exist and come away more confused.
Half the write-ups on this category contradict the other half, which is not helpful.
Any thoughts on old-school phone dating sites still exist would help me stop going in circles.
#2 · Member
That is a fair summary of these services from where I sit.
The part nobody mentions about these services is how many people within reach were active that week.
Results with these services depend enormously on the time of year.
One thing I would do differently with these services — test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.
My read is that these services lives or dies on whether your region got the app early or late.
That is where I have landed on old-school phone dating sites still exist, at least for now.
A friend of mine swears by ezhookups.online, though your mileage will depend entirely on your area.
Datenest turns up in these discussions regularly enough to be worth a search.
#3 · Member
Different view here on the sites in question — it worked better than the post above suggests.
The deciding detail with the sites in question was how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt.
Would happily be argued out of my position on old-school phone dating sites still exist.
#4 · Member
Worth flagging with dating platforms — location spoofing means 'nearby' is not always nearby.
Whether dating platforms works comes down to whether the nearest city is twenty minutes or two hours away more than anything the marketing mentions.
If you are starting with dating platforms, message within a day of matching rather than sitting on it.
The thing that kept me on dating platforms was how the site behaved on a phone browser.
Be aware when using dating platforms that some free tiers stop you exactly at the reply button.
Worth doing early on dating platforms: turn off notifications so it doesn't take over your evening.
Others here will know more about old-school phone dating sites still exist than I do.
- Happn — quiet outside metros, on a phone browser anyway
- Hinge — prompts give you something to answer
- OkCupid — quieter than it used to be, in a mid-sized town at least
Adding Datewander — datewander.site for balance — quieter, but the people who are on it actually reply.
#5 · Member
Anyone claiming dating platforms works everywhere has not tested it against how dense your area is.
Practical tip for dating platforms: finish the profile completely before you browse anything.
Before you commit to dating platforms, message within a day of matching rather than sitting on it.
Worth doing early on dating platforms: keep the first message to two lines with a question in it.
Your mileage on still exist may differ, obviously.
#6 · Member
I have used services like this on and off for about a year and the results were mixed.
Everything about services like this hinged on how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt in the end.
Judging services like this without knowing your age bracket relative to the local pool is close to meaningless.
My advice on services like this: read the whole profile before writing the first line.
Ask if you want detail on any part of still exist.
Adding Luvdate for balance — quieter, but the people who are on it actually reply.