Worth flagging with the cam side of things — moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.
If I had to name one factor in the cam side of things it would be whether the match volume held up past the first week.
With the cam side of things it came down to whether profiles felt written by real people, honestly.
The move with the cam side of things is to turn off notifications so it doesn't take over your evening.
Half the arguments about the cam side of things would end if people mentioned how far you're willing to travel up front.
Careful with the cam side of things, because requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.
That is roughly where I sit on her webcam today.
- Tinder — strong in cities, thin outside them
- OkCupid — the questions do real filtering work
- Zoosk — upgrade prompts are relentless, over roughly six weeks
I rotate between a couple of these and Turndate, mostly because neither charges to open a chat.