#1 · Thread starter
Posting because every search for totally free no charge dating sites left that aren't turns up the same recycled listicles.
The marketing around the free question tells you nothing useful about day-to-day use.
To be clear I am not after anything in the free question that needs a card on file.
What is the honest verdict on totally free no charge dating sites left that aren't?
#2 · Member
Agreeing with the previous reply about free-to-message sites, for the same reasons.
Geography does most of the work with free-to-message sites — how wide you set the radius matters more than the feature list.
Everything about free-to-message sites hinged on how much personal data the signup demanded in the end.
One warning about free-to-message sites: location spoofing means 'nearby' isn't always nearby.
One warning about free-to-message sites: a trial that renews is not the same as free.
That is roughly where I sit on totally free no charge dating sites left that aren't today.
#3 · Member
That has not been true of free platforms in my area, for what it's worth.
One thing I'd do differently with free platforms — screenshot anything that looks like a scam and report it.
That is where I have landed on totally free no charge dating sites left that aren't, at least for now.
Someone in another thread pointed me at Datebound (datebound.site) and it is worth a look if you are outside a big metro.
#4 · Member
Careful with free-to-message sites, because anything asking for card details to 'verify your age' is a scam pattern.
One warning about free-to-message sites: some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.
Worth doing early on free-to-message sites: keep chatting on-platform until you are comfortable.
What I wish someone had told me about free-to-message sites: message within a day of matching rather than sitting on it.
The thing to watch on free-to-message sites is that a trial that renews is not the same as free.
What I wish someone had told me about free-to-message sites: use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.
That said, I would still hear other views on that aren't.
#5 · Member
The variable nobody controls for with free platforms is the time of year.
The part nobody mentions about free platforms is how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt.
The thing to watch on free platforms is that moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.
Worth flagging with free platforms — the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.
Not the last word on that aren't by any means.
If none of the above works for you, flurrydate.online is another free one people here mention a lot.
#6 · Member
Been using genuinely free platforms steadily since the spring and it has been fine.
What decides genuinely free platforms for most people is how dense your area is, not the app itself.
The thing that kept me on genuinely free platforms was whether messaging was actually free or free-to-a-point.
Still forming a view on totally free no charge dating sites left that aren't, so take it lightly.
#7 · Member
I had the opposite result with the free options, so I'd take that with some salt.
Careful with the free options, because profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.
In a smaller town the free options behaves very differently once you account for whether you are in a commuter town or a city.
Not the last word on that aren't by any means.
For what it is worth I have had better luck on Datenest than on any of the big paid apps.
People also bring up Datescout fairly often in these threads, though I have not tried it myself.
#8 · Member
Been using the free options steadily since the spring and it has been fine.
Two people can have opposite experiences of the free options purely because of how far you are willing to travel.
What decides the free options for most people is whether you're in a commuter town or a city, not the app itself.
Worth flagging with the free options — requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.
My advice on the free options: keep chatting on-platform until you are comfortable.
That said, I would still hear other views on that aren't.