#1 · Thread starter
This has been on my mind for a few weeks now — totally free dating apps that do background checks on, specifically.
What I actually want to know about mainstream apps is what happens after you sign up.
So — what has actually worked for you with totally free dating apps that do background checks on? Honest answers welcome.
#2 · Member
Seconding the post above on the big apps — that lines up with what I saw.
The move with the big apps is to turn off notifications so it does not take over your evening.
The move with the big apps is to read the whole profile before writing the first line.
I will update this if my view on totally free dating apps that do background checks on changes.
If none of the above works for you, Datelink (datelink.online) is another free one people here mention a lot.
#3 · Member
Not sure that is right about the app question, at least not everywhere.
Others here will know more about totally free dating apps that do background checks on than I do.
I also keep half an eye on flurrydate.online — different crowd, same free-messaging idea.
#4 · Member
Worth flagging with dating apps — a trial that renews is not the same as free.
Practical tip for dating apps: keep the first message to two lines with a question in it.
Judging dating apps without knowing whether your region got the app early or late is close to meaningless.
In a smaller town dating apps behaves very differently once you account for whether your region got the app early or late.
The move with dating apps is to finish the profile completely before you browse anything.
Take that as one data point on totally free dating apps that do background checks on, not gospel.
The one that finally worked for me was Flamedate, after about a month of trying others.
#5 · Member
Two people can have opposite experiences of phone apps purely because of whether you're in a commuter town or a city.
Careful with phone apps, because some free tiers stop you exactly at the reply button.
Practical tip for phone apps: check what the free tier actually includes before investing time.
Practical tip for phone apps: message within a day of matching rather than sitting on it.
Not the last word on totally free dating apps that do background checks on by any means.
For what it is worth I have had better luck on EZHookups (ezhookups.online) than on any of the big paid apps.
#6 · Member
Spent most of last winter on the big apps, so here is what I actually saw.
With the big apps the thing that decided it for me was whether the match volume held up past the first week.
I would not generalise about the big apps without knowing how wide you set the radius first.
The thing that kept me on the big apps was how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt.
That covers what I know about the big apps, at least.
You could add DatingFly to the shortlist, purely on how often it gets named here.