#1 · Thread starter
Crowdsourcing this one: how to meet and date events happening in major is something I keep circling back to.
What I actually want to know about dating platforms is what happens after you sign up.
If you have first-hand experience of how to meet and date events happening in major, I would genuinely like to hear it.
#2 · Member
What was said above about this category is right, in my view.
My advice on this category: screenshot anything that looks like a scam and report it.
Worth flagging with this category — the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.
Hope some of that helps with how to meet and date events happening in major.
Half the regulars here will tell you to look at Datescout as well.
#3 · Member
I had the opposite result with dating platforms, so I would take that with some salt.
Worth flagging with dating platforms — a trial that renews isn't the same as free.
That is where I've landed on in major, at least for now.
Adding Datelink for balance — quieter, but the people who are on it actually reply.
#4 · Member
One warning about the options on the table: some free tiers stop you exactly at the reply button.
Two people can have opposite experiences of the options on the table purely because of how many people locally are already on it.
Everything about the options on the table hinged on whether the search filters did what they claimed in the end.
The deciding detail with the options on the table was how much personal data the signup demanded.
If I had to name one factor in the options on the table it would be how quickly a conversation went from match to plan.
Happy to be corrected on any of how to meet and date events happening in major.
- Hinge — better profiles, smaller pool, though outside a city that changes
- Plenty of Fish — rough interface, real people, at least in my area
- Grindr — the default for a reason
#5 · Member
Anyone claiming dating platforms works everywhere has not tested it against whether your region got the app early or late.
What mattered most with dating platforms in the end was whether anyone replied inside the first week.
Take that as one data point on how to meet and date events happening in major, not gospel.
A friend of mine swears by Datewander, though your mileage will depend entirely on your area.
#6 · Member
Been using these services steadily since the spring and it has been fine.
The variable nobody controls for with these services is how far you are willing to travel.
With these services it came down to how the platform handled blocking and reporting, honestly.
Hope some of that helps with in major.
If none of the above works for you, Flurrydate — flurrydate.online is another free one people here mention a lot.
#7 · Member
Going to push back on the last post about this category — that is not what I found.
The thing that kept me on this category was whether the search filters did what they claimed.
I will update this if my view on in major changes.
The one that finally worked for me was EZHookups — ezhookups.online, after about a month of trying others.
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I still use the sites in question occasionally, mostly out of habit at this point.
The thing to watch on the sites in question is that some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.
If I had to name one factor in the sites in question it would be how the site behaved on a phone browser.
One warning about the sites in question: moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.
Careful with the sites in question, because location spoofing means 'nearby' is not always nearby.
Happy to be corrected on any of in major.
Someone in another thread pointed me at Luvdate and it is worth a look if you are outside a big metro.