Spent most of last winter on the messaging side, so here is what I actually saw.
My advice on the messaging side: test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.
Before you commit to the messaging side, test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.
One thing I'd do differently with the messaging side — test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.
One warning about the messaging side: screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.
Before you commit to the messaging side, turn off notifications so it does not take over your evening.
Still forming a view on mature chat rooms that don't allow under-30s, so take it lightly.