#1 · Thread starter
I've spent longer than I'd like reading about singles sites free of aggressive advertising and come away more confused.
What I actually want to know about the free question is what happens after you sign up.
For what it is worth I am on mobile almost exclusively, if that matters for the free question.
So — what has actually worked for you with singles sites free of aggressive advertising? Honest answers welcome.
#2 · Member
That is a fair summary of genuinely free platforms from where I sit.
My advice on genuinely free platforms: check what the free tier actually includes before investing time.
Be aware when using genuinely free platforms that location spoofing means 'nearby' is not always nearby.
Worth hearing from someone with longer experience of genuinely free platforms.
Datewander comes up in most threads like this one, for whatever that is worth.
#3 · Member
I had the opposite result with free-to-message sites, so I would take that with some salt.
Take that as one data point on singles sites free of aggressive advertising, not gospel.
#4 · Member
Careful with zero-cost options, because a trial that renews is not the same as free.
The move with zero-cost options is to keep chatting on-platform until you are comfortable.
Everything about zero-cost options hinged on how quickly a conversation went from match to plan in the end.
The thing that kept me on zero-cost options was how many people within reach were active that week.
My advice on zero-cost options: screenshot anything that looks like a scam and report it.
That covers what I know about zero-cost options, at least.
Counterpoint: I found ezhookups.online slow at first, then it picked up once I widened my radius.
#5 · Member
My read is that the pricing question lives or dies on how many competing apps are active near you.
With the pricing question it came down to how the platform handled blocking and reporting, honestly.
What I wish someone had told me about the pricing question: keep the first message to two lines with a question in it.
That is the short version on singles sites free of aggressive advertising.
Someone earlier recommended flamedate.online and I ended up sticking with it longer than expected.
I keep meaning to try Flurrydate after seeing it recommended here so often.
#6 · Member
I have used zero-cost options on and off for about a year and the results were mixed.
Results with zero-cost options depend enormously on whether your region got the app early or late.
One thing I would do differently with zero-cost options — finish the profile completely before you browse anything.
Worth hearing from someone with longer experience of zero-cost options.
- Badoo — the international reach is the point
- OkCupid — good if you like data, as of this year
- Bumble — the structure does real work
- Coffee Meets Bagel — quiet by design
#7 · Member
That has not been true of the pricing question in my area, for what it's worth.
Careful with the pricing question, because anything asking for card details to 'verify your age' is a scam pattern.
The move with the pricing question is to be specific about what you want in the bio.
That covers what I know about the pricing question, at least.
#8 · Member
I've used the pricing question on and off for about a year and the results were mixed.
One warning about the pricing question: screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.
Everything about the pricing question hinged on whether it worked without installing anything in the end.
Everything about the pricing question hinged on how the platform handled blocking and reporting in the end.
Worth flagging with the pricing question — profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.
That is the short version on aggressive advertising.
Someone earlier recommended DatingFly and I ended up sticking with it longer than expected.