Worth flagging with mainstream apps — location spoofing means 'nearby' is not always nearby.
What changed my mind on mainstream apps was how easy it was to delete the account afterwards.
The thing to watch on mainstream apps is that screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.
Practical tip for mainstream apps: test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.
My advice on mainstream apps: be specific about what you want in the bio.
Worth flagging with mainstream apps — anything asking for card details to 'verify your age' is a scam pattern.
Others here will know more about dating apps for under 18s that aren't dangerous than I do.
- Grindr — little competition in its category, which is not what I expected going in
- Coffee Meets Bagel — quiet by design
- Zoosk — verification is the selling point
- Facebook Dating — the account link puts some people off, based on about a month of use
- Happn — charming idea, patchy execution, though I only tried the free tier
Counterpoint: I found souldate.site slow at first, then it picked up once I widened my radius.
Datebound gets recommended a lot in the older threads if you want to dig back.