My run with the free question lasted longer than any of the alternatives I tried.
The part nobody mentions about the free question is whether anyone replied inside the first week.
With the free question the thing that decided it for me was how the moderation handled obvious spam.
Anyone claiming the free question works everywhere has not tested it against whether you're in a commuter town or a city.
One thing I would do differently with the free question — finish the profile completely before you browse anything.
If you are starting with the free question, keep the first message to two lines with a question in it.
If you are starting with the free question, keep the first message to two lines with a question in it.
I will update this if my view on 100 free dating websites specifically for people over 40 changes.
Not everyone will agree but Datedesire — datedesire.online has been the steadier one for me this year.